Escapade Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 Do you like to hook up? What's your time frame? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unbreakable. Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 My puss is very exclusive babe. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarrylf Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 Depends on the person and the energy & vibes of what's going on between us. Sometimes it's all there but i just doesn't feel like it's time yet, like you want to feel em out more....not literally yet lol. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 However long the cab ride home is 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unbreakable. Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 However long the cab ride home is Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janet.1814 Posted July 18, 2014 Share Posted July 18, 2014 A few weeks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EphraimAdamz Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 It used to be as we hugged or shook hands.... but now that I'm 26 I'm starting to actually look for sincere qualities in people. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janet.1814 Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 It used to be as we hugged or shook hands.... but now that I'm 26 I'm starting to actually look for sincere qualities in people.  yeah, same here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kishi Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 In my sexual history, I've mostly been involved with friends. The last few that I've dated and/or had sexual encounters with, I knew them all for at least 6 months. With these scenarios, I'm already comfortable with them and established a connection, so it was very easy for me to make a move.  If it's someone new that I'm getting to know and we have no previous friendship, I don't put a time limit on it, I just go with the flow and see where the chemistry is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 It used to be as we hugged or shook hands.... but now that I'm 26 I'm starting to actually look for sincere qualities in people. Meaning  2 hours.. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna â™” Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 Virgin, but I'm waiting for whenever I feel comfortable enough with someone. That takes a lot, hence why I haven't done anything yet. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kishi Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 Virgin, but I'm waiting for whenever I feel comfortable enough with someone. That takes a lot, hence why I haven't done anything yet.  KEEP IT UP!! I'm telling you from experience...it's better that you wait until you're comfortable than waste your time on someone who isn't on your level and doesn't respect your worth. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 KEEP IT UP!! I'm telling you from experience...it's better that you wait until you're comfortable than waste your time on someone who isn't on your level and doesn't respect your worth.  I will! Yeah, I've heard the same thing from so many people especially family members telling me that they wished they'd waited or those who did wait and said they were very happy they did. I'm not expecting to marry whomever is my first or anything, but I just don't want a story of regret after the fact. I want something where even if the relationship went south later, I'd be happy with having shared that time with them. Not just that person, but anyone after as well. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kishi Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 I will! Yeah, I've heard the same thing from so many people especially family members telling me that they wished they'd waited or those who did wait and said they were very happy they did. I'm not expecting to marry whomever is my first or anything, but I just don't want a story of regret after the fact. I want something where even if the relationship went south later, I'd be happy with having shared that time with them. Not just that person, but anyone after as well.  You're on the right track (in my opinion).  I wasn't sexually active until I was 18, but I was naive about a lot of things. Rather than listen to my mind and heart, I allowed my lust and thirst to attract people who weren't on my level and couldn't give me what I needed. Most of the individuals I've been involved with have self-esteem issues and don't love themselves, so yes, I do have a lot of regret for giving my body and time to those who don't deserve it.  Just take your time. When you're ready, make sure it's with someone who respects you and themselves. Someone who is a great communicator. It's important to know what you like/dislike and voice it to the other person. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
William Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 3 years Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Wonder Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 Until marriage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatOtherFan Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 Until marriage.  So many lies in so few words. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ray. Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 Until marriage. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 It depends sometimes these bitches aint worth the magic stick other times it can break out any minute the key is balance, its something to be said about the build up of anticipation when the chemistry is right!.....alot of times when I do have sex most dudes aren't even that good so I wonder was it even worth my time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 Do you like to hook up? What's your time frame? do I like to? fuck no....I like dating ...but nowadays in a gay man's world thats barely an option, I see guys asking all the time "does anyone date anymore?" hook ups make me feel cheap slutty and silly 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 You're on the right track (in my opinion).  I wasn't sexually active until I was 18, but I was naive about a lot of things. Rather than listen to my mind and heart, I allowed my lust and thirst to attract people who weren't on my level and couldn't give me what I needed. Most of the individuals I've been involved with have self-esteem issues and don't love themselves, so yes, I do have a lot of regret for giving my body and time to those who don't deserve it.  Just take your time. When you're ready, make sure it's with someone who respects you and themselves. Someone who is a great communicator. It's important to know what you like/dislike and voice it to the other person. THAT!  the guilt is shit  when we know better we do better though, I can honestly say, the days of me being an active participant in "hooking up" are behind me, I don't go to any sites, I don't browse apps for guys, because I know what that shit is like and it's nothing, Im so much better than that, and I actually like meeting people and getting to know who they are, sometimes that can add to the excitement of sex. Sex, just like anything else in life, can be beautiful or ugly, your choice 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Wonder Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 So many lies in so few words.  "Jealousy's the ugliest trait." -Keri Hilson 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 In my sexual history, I've mostly been involved with friends. The last few that I've dated and/or had sexual encounters with, I knew them all for at least 6 months. With these scenarios, I'm already comfortable with them and established a connection, so it was very easy for me to make a move.  If it's someone new that I'm getting to know and we have no previous friendship, I don't put a time limit on it, I just go with the flow and see where the chemistry is. I find it a bit strange being friends with another gay man in general. Not that I can't do it, but mostly because a lot of gay men I have met seem to be incapable of sustaining a lasting genuine friendship because as I see they either fall into one of two categories, guys that want to fuck you, and guys that dont Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 Meaning  2 hours.. clock the bullshit Shawn, I rolled my eyes reading that no tea no shade Effrem cool people, but don't get in here acting like you aint putting it down when we know you are Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted July 19, 2014 Share Posted July 19, 2014 I find it a bit strange being friends with another gay man in general. Not that I can't do it, but mostly because a lot of gay men I have met seem to be incapable of sustaining a lasting genuine friendship because as I see they either fall into one of two categories, guys that want to fuck you, and guys that dont What?! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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