Paul

If you guys socialise in the same place then ur bound to see him out and around, if you see him, just smile and say hi. The best way to get to someone is to act indifferent. I'm thinking if you steer clear of him, there will come a time when you aren't bothered by him at all.

The best thing to do is close the door for a good few months until you are healed. If you see him it will be like scratching off a scab, and the healing process will be longer. At least if you give yourself time, you will be able to look at him without all the emotion and see him for who he is. Going to see him, hearing about the guys he is sleeping with will just be unnescessary pain. You got to think of yourself matey.

You are an very attractive, seemingly kind person and you deserve better than anyone who treats you with such disrespect. Just remember that he is the one who lost out, not you. Never allow yourself to be treated like a door mat because you will be walked over. Always set your boundaries and stick to them. One thing I have learned is that its always best to stand up for yourself, and to be honest, a lot of men want you more and treat you better if you act like you are someone who deserves it.

Everyone told you that he had a BM fetish, and that YOU were playing ito it yourself by basically saying what you had to offer was your big black dick. I hope you learned from this....sorry to be harsh, but im getting frustraed just remembering this situation.

Didn't he have sex with other people while you were dating? Somethign about christmas eve rings a bell.......so why wouldnt he when you broke up? All I remember from this whole situation is that you came across like a doormat, letting him walk over you.

I have been trying to get a HQ verison of "Who" for months, and I can't find one anywhere, can someone upload it for me? I will make it worth your while and get Sphenx or Boii to give you sexual favours in return

Thanks!! Janet is amazing

I wanna see the show where Janet hits the note - I can't log into Janet media

Ugh

LONDON BABY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

joejoe, beyonce hit more notes than Brandy did.... And celine shut them both down with her by far superior voice! I prefer Brandy when she is singing the way she sings on records.

LOL - its basically saying that a man was giving all the big talk about how he is so great in bed, but he took out his thing he was making excuses that it was soft, and that in reality it looked like a lipstick. Its a song about how a man asumes the other person is all cute and sweet, and how they are gonna tear them up, but in reality its the cute sweet person that is "wicked in bed" - I thought a power bottom like you would be down with that I love you hotass LOL

I thought he was callng me stupid for not realising that Beyonce actually writes her song and offering the video as proof I guess that made me look stupid BUt the beyonce cusses still stand

Yeah.........so the video said "sorry an error occured please try again later" and didn't play. How telling Im glad I didn't have to listen to that cletus the slack jawed yokel sounding song-stealer, so I will not be trying again later

Who is Ciara?

IM sure the same thing has happened to you

She needs to listen to Janets itunes podcast she recorded........it might teach her that a writer has to come up with lyrics and melodies etc........not adding an extra "oooh" and then claiming credit

Well....... Mi jus did a kickback, imma say im sof' an' a gimmie big chat, get to find out imma big rifraf, di bwoy pop sut'm whey fava lip gloss............shame im a pose big time ow imma stulla - How im a go do mi like nobody else coulda! Ah true im know me as a likkle brown suga - Neva know mi wicked an mi bad soooooooo Neva know seh mi woulda wicked inna bed

Celine beat her in a couple of posts later