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  1. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    but ima give ya'll the dirt so we ended up at the bar a few weeks back, and his ex corey works there, and i did not know he did not tell me til after, he loves drama, anyway im thinking to myself do i want to end up like Corey, I mean Brian shows up to the bar with me to "show off" so his ex can see and get upset? Then he says his ex doesnt get upset or jealous im like dude you is fucking crazy. I dont want to be Corey where at some point its Brian and some other dude and he all about showing it in my face thats just evil
  2. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    he made fun of me, he goes well i guess now that you want to sever ties you gotta call the phone company so you can change your number for the tenth time im like bitch you is really out there
  3. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    my ex Brian is down right mean, I finally was doing well, which people here dont know me enough to see i do have some strength I changed my number blocked all emails from him, and went over a month no contact at all, Brian emails me from his work email which I never had, and he said he thought I had committed suicide and he googled a johnie bailey that died in Texas and was talking about how he knew that was not me and blah blah blah, im like this bitch is really crazy, how the fuck you think I died? and over what? you? bitch im doing school and me now
  4. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    im just trying to figure out how to keep him away! The man is out of his fucking mind, his ex Corey apparently had sex with him last weekend, so Brian tells me Corey has no emotions and he doesnt have jealousy either, but you Johnie your always mad and upset, im like no Brian you got Corey wrapped around your finger doing all you want and im not Corey im Johnie im not going to be doing what you want when you want, im like fuck it, im tired I really think thats what it takes for me, for everyone its different, and for me I think it took me seeing the true Brian and im tired, I could not be happy with that, plus I noticed last night, he getting fat. That ass is getting some pounds on it it aint even hot no moe, im thinking you jiggly
  5. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    i already lost a friend because of this, and I think thats the worst thing in the world if you care about him leave that door open, im not saying put up with him coming around telling you over and over like I am, im saying dont leave him feeling alone, thats not good trust me on this
  6. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    thats where I am at problem is he contacts me, trust me guys im really not that bad my thing is there are so few options here, im like fuck it i would rather be alone then deal with him
  7. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    ok and? As in when did you stop contact? Or do you still speak? I have come to the conclusion everyone on here was right about my ex, its all games for him and I have determined I must sever all ties with him he takes away my peace and my joy he leaves me drained of positive energy.
  8. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    im tired of hurting myself, we fucked tonight ....and it was not about me staying the night, no cuddle, i didnt even kiss him the entire act, i think he is evil
  9. give me some new stuff to rock out too, and bare in mind I dont really do ballads much, I like to dance but I dont listen to the radio I dont even know who the hell Nicki Manj or whatever is I just want to listen to some new good stuff, I like that Keri song "pretty girl rock"
  10. I actually love the song and the video, took a second for me to warm up to it but I love it, thanks for posting it
  11. I said no and no again im like this, right now no one is dropping albums because the business model of selling music is broken, they dont know how to make money off what people can steal
  12. ConvertXtoDVD look for a copy on piratebay and download it either cracked or with a key gen to activate it, basically it is what it says it will take a file you have say avi or xvid and convert it to a dvd
  13. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    I dont want to end up being like his ex Corey, Corey sees him out with other guys and still talks to Brian, Brian said to me once "I can have Corey whenever I want him", "Corey begs to come over all the time" I dont want to leave Brian with the thought well "I can have Johnie whenever I want, Johnie loves me" funny thing is Brian never says the word love ever, not EVER, not once in 5 months since the break up, its almost like he is stuck on show no emotion never let them see you sweat, I made the mistake of telling him im not over it I love you, he NEVER says I love you to me EVER NOT ONCE
  14. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    now thats something for me to go off of, thank you so much, all of you, im thinking its time for me to do me and break off contact altogether, funny thing is the guys he finds are nothing compared to me, he said himself there is nothing here so he lost not me, but I have to grow, I cant be mister emotional, I tell him too much he tells me too little and lies alot too, im getting over this because honestly im tired of the bullshit im too old for this shit. Its just all weird because basically im learning there is no Santa and that the game is fucked up but were all in it so you have to play it or you lose you have no choice there, I dont want someone that thinks of black dick as a toy, I do want a committed monogamous relationship, in time when its right for me, Brian just fucked up alot anyway, so maybe one day he wont bother me, its just taking a minute for me to heal
  15. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    look I know your a tough cookie, but lets all open our minds, this experience has forced me to grow and learn, so for you if your alone for what seems forever and you find someone madly attractive and they actually give you some attention you fall for the bullshit, its sad, its fucked, its wrong, but yes I let alot of bad shit go down the important thing is for folks to see that well jbailey is learning he did break it off, he isnt talking about how to get back with his ex but how to move on, im on the right path now, im growing, im learning to respect myself no one is perfect, that is what my friend told me, he said we ALL have our shortcomings, mine was wanting him so much I forgot about taking care of my own needs
  16. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    apparently alot of people got frustrated over this and me, I lost a good friend over this I think I lost respect from him because he saw that I didnt respect myself, and basically people get tired of hearing about the same thing when they tell you what you need to hear and you keep putting your finger in the electrical socket anyway yet asking why does it shock me?
  17. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    I think so too, issue is I changed my number and blocked him from emailing me he then emailed me from his work email, I was actually doing well I had not seen him in months and I was not talkign to him, one good thing about me is I dont call you, I have my father's pride, I would never contact Brian, so he actually said to me, because he had not heard from me that he thought I had committed suicide, this is the type of person I dealt with. I told him in response to the "i thought you committed suicide" I said "over what?" you?
  18. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    thats what I thought too that im just opening the wound up again and again, maybe when I am healed I wont want him at all, what do you think? I mean part of me really thinks what will happen is I will see him as a slut and that I dont like him at all, I dont like his immaturity, like last time I saw him about two weeks ago he was all about going out to the bar, I said I came here to spend the night with you and just you not the bar so dont bring the bar up again once i get there, I failed to stand my ground we ended up at the bar but I did have fun, problem was he had an agenda he wanted to "show me off" but once we got to the bar his ex was there and some kid he "knows" was there too, he introduced me to the "kid" and this boy said after we were walking away "have fun with him" im like Brian whats THAT about? I did not want to be in a bar with my ex. I guess his other ex who I have not met saw me and did not know who I was and said "well at least that one is cute" Brian apparently loves drama, and he goes " my ex would not have said your cute if he knew who you were but he didnt recognize me"
  19. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    that is right self esteem sure, condfidence, funny thing is I feel more attractive now then before, in any case I dont know nor see how are we going to be "friends" and he wants sex too, but that issue is he wants what he wants only on his terms and when he wants it so say I want some and im looking for it and he is not then I dont get it, but let it be him and its all about him im like Brian the world is not all about you, he is very selfish and stubborn
  20. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    the issue now is should I even deal with this person at all, something really crazy happen, as life goes I guess, I used to drive 2 hours one way to see him, he got a transfer and promotion for his job so now he lives 25 mins away from me, he wants me around and all that, but I do still have emotions even though I ended the relationship because he basically put nothing into it. What im asking here is should I even bother? I read online that if someone treated you like shit, whether you allowed it or not, you should not be friends after, besides I know he is basically a man whore. BUT we did have amazing chemistry I was told that we would not have gone as long as we did if it was all just sex, so im trying to figure out how to fit this person into my life somehow and accept that he will be getting fucked by black guys in my area some of which I know.
  21. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    thats what im learning, he even told me I needed to be more assertive with him it was like he desired it, but we all get the understanding here respect yourself first sure, none of that tkes away the fact he was a cheater a liar and a manipulator, in other respects sure the only bad shit that happens to us in relationships is what we allow to happen I let alot go.
  22. Bailey

    My Ex Thread

    we live and we learn, unfortanetly I have been informed that my thought processes were wrong and that if I broke them altogether I would not have the conclusions I do. I thought that if I treated someone the way I wanted to be treated that person would treat me well, I have learned the hard way as my ex would say "what you allow is what you teach" I also know that there are some co-dependent issues here and self esteem issues, all of which im in recovery shall we say dealing with those issues
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