Abusers suck. Mine wasn't a lover, she was meant to be my friend and she terrorized me and verbally and mentally abused me. She trapped me at her house every day after school and told me things would happen to me or my family if I tried to leave before she allowed me to, or if I told. I was 10 fucking years old! She was 16, she must have been seriously messed up in the head. She used to force me to watch horror movies like Poltergeist and Child's Play.