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I like mine dry :) with porn lube disturbs "thangs"

How does that feel for you? :mellow:

I mean, all jokes aside, how do you masturbate without lubrication of some sort? Do you just use the foreskin, or do you really like dry friction? I personally need lubrication.

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How does that feel for you? :mellow:

I mean, all jokes aside, how do you masturbate without lubrication of some sort? Do you just use the foreskin, or do you really like dry friction? I personally need lubrication.

I guess you have to think about it from a natural stand point, most boys will learn to masturbate one way or the other, as I "discovered" masturbation back before the net, I was watching a porno my folks left in the VCR, yea I'm old....and I would just watch it and get super horny but didn't know what masturbation was. So one super horny day, I just started rubbing myself the same way the guy was doing to his self in the video...it felt good...and then I came....I was surprised...I said today I think I lost my virginity. I didn't have lube then so to this day I never use lube to jerk off, actually even lube for sex reduces friction and the likelihood I will come. I think my dick is not sensitive enough lube makes it harder for me to cum, and if another guy is trying to get me off that is almost impossible too, I have to do it myself. But that's what happens when over 90% of my orgasms are solo events :)
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I told my ex at the time after we started fucking raw ( being tested and all) that if he wanted me to cum inside him maybe would could use Vaseline ...that did the trick...he was happy he would come home on lunch break and go back to work and text me "baby came a lot ! I'm leaking"

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U don't always need lube or lotion. I've busted hands free just by thinking really hard. I've busted from dry humping...... how else have i busted...... oh I busted just by massaging my balls.

I think I may have low testosterone....cumming without touching it is just fucking impossible for me. I am happy to report I have made a lot of guys cum without touching theirs :shifty:
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I guess you have to think about it from a natural stand point, most boys will learn to masturbate one way or the other, as I "discovered" masturbation back before the net, I was watching a porno my folks left in the VCR, yea I'm old....and I would just watch it and get super horny but didn't know what masturbation was. So one super horny day, I just started rubbing myself the same way the guy was doing to his self in the video...it felt good...and then I came....I was surprised...I said today I think I lost my virginity. I didn't have lube then so to this day I never use lube to jerk off, actually even lube for sex reduces friction and the likelihood I will come. I think my dick is not sensitive enough lube makes it harder for me to cum, and if another guy is trying to get me off that is almost impossible too, I have to do it myself. But that's what happens when over 90% of my orgasms are solo events

That's how I discovered masturbation too!!!!!!! :excited:

I thought it was just me. :cry:

But yeah, once I discovered vaseline/warm lotion/conditioner, my dry frictions days were done.

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That's how I discovered masturbation too!!!!!!! :excited:

I thought it was just me. :cry:

But yeah, once I discovered vasiline/warm lotion/conditioner, my dry frictions days were done.

I think I went too long and it was too late....I have a theory about peen, your peen is str8 until you start to jerk off and get it hard, so if you a lefty and depending on how you jerk your peen will lean that way, if you a righty your dick will curve that way.....it's all about personalizing your peen like your desktop....mine is just a plain windows background
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That's how I discovered masturbation too!!!!!!! :excited:

I thought it was just me. :cry:

But yeah, once I discovered vasiline/warm lotion/conditioner, my dry frictions days were done.

I mean a dick is the best toy you will ever have that doesn't come with any directions .....it's so sad really, boys are never taught, just take that down there and tug at it for awhile, some of you less long than others, learn to hold back think of it as a social investment in your future. Spit on it if you don't know what lube is you may like it...
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U don't always need lube or lotion. I've busted hands free just by thinking really hard. I've busted from dry humping...... how else have i busted...... oh I busted just by massaging my balls.

so you could potentially just bust sitting in a chair in a room full of people in the right pants or shorts? :w00t: oh I envy you
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I think I went too long and it was too late....I have a theory about peen, your peen is str8 until you start to jerk off and get it hard, so if you a lefty and depending on how you jerk your peen will lean that way, if you a righty your dick will curve that way.....it's all about personalizing your peen like your desktop....mine is just a plain windows background

I'm left handed, but my penis still goes straight. But I use both hands to jack off. That's another thing i never could get into, the one hand jack off. It feels incomplete. I do however love a crooked DICK!!! You can't tell when its soft, but when its hard and it curves! :w00t:

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I'm left handed, but my penis still goes straight. But I use both hands to jack off. That's another thing i never could get into, the one hand jack off. It feels incomplete. I do however love a crooked DICK!!! You can't tell when its soft, but when its hard and it curves! :w00t:

my dick curves ....it pisses me off to have the "wrong" hand trying my peen ...my peen is very particular....I wonder what it would be like if I were uncut because they say you lose sensitivity from that, I envy uncut peen
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I think I may have low testosterone....cumming without touching it is just fucking impossible for me. I am happy to report I have made a lot of guys cum without touching theirs :shifty:

It usually happens when I don't masturbate or have sex for 4 or 5 days.......... I start eating that pussy...... pleasing her just sends me over the edge. Cum on myself before we even get started >_<

Luckily I'm large enough that I don't even have to be fully hard for her to feel the dick inside.

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so you could potentially just bust sitting in a chair in a room full of people in the right pants or shorts? :w00t: oh I envy you

Um no, that's rude. I'd feel too dirty and shy so that would never work.

I did it at a strip club once though. I guess I still have to be in a sexual environment. Or have visual stimulation

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It usually happens when I don't masturbate or have sex for 4 or 5 days.......... I start eating that pussy...... pleasing her just sends me over the edge. Cum on myself before we even get started >_<

Luckily I'm large enough that I don't even have to be fully hard for her to feel the dick inside.

I can go days too but it still won't just go....I have never had a wet dream either...I think it's all God's plumbing down there, some of us have the proper piping others not so much :yep: Ima need you to not cum while eating it that's just embarrassing...next time yo dick gets to that point just tell it to.......

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Um no, that's rude. I'd feel too dirty and shy so that would never work.

I did it at a strip club once though. I guess I still have to be in a sexual environment. Or have visual stimulation

I am visual too, but sometimes the best orgasms I have now are the ones I close my eyes and remember something I did back when I had sex :) some guys like it in public and girls do too....voyeurism is on the rise.
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I did have one dude tell me once he said "your too in your head" ...so maybe...I don't know...the more I know you the easier it is in most cases.

I remember some years ago I was having anxiety. I guess because the girl I was talking to... I could never "read her" in bed. I'm such a pleaser in bed. I like to bust, but I bust best knowing that your being pleased.

So back to the story... since I couldn't get a read on her for a long time, I would never know if she's truly being pleased. I'd start questioning myself. Watching porn a lot more. Am I doing it right? That anxiety will translate into the bedroom. I wasn't getting as hard. It was taking me longer to cum. I'd get distracted by the thoughts in my head.

So finally I had a one night fling with a different girl..... shorty messaged me for weeks. I wanted to hit it, but I was so caught up in the anxiety in my head. She wasn't budging though. She wanted the dick and she wanted it now.

So she comes over. Drops right to her knees... Woa? What the? That was new.

She told me that she only came to please me. That I didn't have to do anything. Just sit back and let it happen. Maaaan.... when she patiently gave me a hand job until I was hard (cause it was taking a while)..... put the condom on for me. She had her little moisturizer, lubed and stroked it some more for good measure........ Mind you these are all things that the guy usually has to do for himself, while the girl "Waits".

She talked so dirty while she did this too. It was the first time I could just relax. Not have to "prepare" and have everything "ready/in place". I finally just let out a sigh and let everything go. She politely straddled me and started riding the dick. Negro I got so hard and busted so quick...

She plopped up. Put her clothes on and went on her marry way. I felt so used lmao.

But my anxiety after that went away. I learned that I don't have to always be the pleaser. Trying to please 24/7, or vice versa can be stressful and that's not what the sex is about. We get tied to these roles, and "duties". Once we stop worrying about what the other person thinks is when the sex will be at it's best.

That was just the source of my anxiety though. Everyone could be different.

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