janetDAYZ Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 I see alot of people feel its impossible for a man to be scared and/or abused by his female companion. Most can't wrap their minds around a guy being victimized by a woman, no not some regular built to buff guy...No Way..he's a man! What are your thoughts? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 Nothing is impossible It happens... There are statistics that support that... Whether you want to be ignorant and have this macho-male-chivalrous pig attitude on the world is up to you.. but domestic abuse is a two-way street Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 Physically? I don't see it. I'm sure it happens in some form though. Mentally and emotionally I can see... Verbal abuse, emasculation... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 Physically? I don't see it. I'm sure it happens in some form though. Mentally and emotionally I can see... Verbal abuse, emasculation... That hurts more than physical abuse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unbreakable. Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 That hurts more than physical abuse. It really does. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laveaux Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 That hurts more than physical abuse. emotional scars take longer to heal. I had a friend who was getting his ass beat by his woman almost daily, he could definitely break her neck but didn't do so because he didn't believe in men hitting women. Johnathan was fine too, could get any woman he wanted but he loved that psycho chick and endured the physical attacks just be with her. Im thinking her pussy game was on point. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 emotional scars take longer to heal. I had a friend who was getting his ass beat by his woman almost daily, he could definitely break her neck but didn't do so because he didn't believe in men hitting women. Johnathan was fine too, could get any woman he wanted but he loved that psycho chick and endured the physical attacks just be with her. Im thinking her pussy game was on point. That's the thing..I don't buy into "physical" abuse with women/men because although she beating your ass, you could defend yourself and beat hers..but society has it that a man shouldn't hit women because we are physically stronger than them.. But if a woman emasculates a man, that is wayyy harsher than her putting her hands on him..that's the equivalent of calling him a bitch or pussy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 I've known a couple men in this situation. Just because it isn't as common as the reverse, it doesn't mean it's impossible. It's almost worse for them because most don't want to believe them and view them as being less of a man. They're brutes if they defend themselves or weak if they don't. It's such a shame. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedSimba Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 It can definitely happen ~ even if the abuse is mental or emotional. I remember watching a "What Would You Do" episode on this where the woman was physically violent toward the man, and almost no one would come to help him. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 It can definitely happen ~ even if the abuse is mental or emotional. I remember watching a "What Would You Do" episode on this where the woman was physically violent toward the man, and almost no one would come to help him. I love that show! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 I see alot of people feel its impossible for a man to be scared and/or abused by his female companion. Most can't wrap their minds around a guy being victimized by a woman, no not some regular built to buff guy...No Way..he's a man! What are your thoughts? I think it can happen but i'll be damned if it happens to me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 I guess some people are dumb enuff to stay after the first ass whooping.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 Perfect thread to post this. ManKind's Domestic Violence Video Shows The Double Standards Between Male And Female Victims http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/2014/05/27/mankind-men-domestic-violence-video-abuse_n_5396154.html 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 I think it can happen but i'll be damned if it happens to me He said female companion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 I guess some people are dumb enuff to stay after the first ass whooping.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 Problem? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted May 27, 2014 Share Posted May 27, 2014 He said female companion ok and what else? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted May 27, 2014 Author Share Posted May 27, 2014 He said female companion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 Problem? Are you really blaming a victim for their own abuse? You don't think people try to leave their abusive partners? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unbreakable. Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 Are you really blaming a victim for their own abuse? You don't think people try to leave their abusive partners? Please show me where I blamed the victim??? If you stay after the first ass whooping, then it's on you.. Leaving is a choice and everyone has a choice.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 Please show me where I blamed the victim??? If you stay after the first ass whooping, then it's on you.. Leaving is a choice and everyone has a choice.. That's blaming the victim Not everyone is able to leave after the first beating. Hell, not everyone can leave after the tenth beating. If it was that easy then every victim would have left their partners immediately. This isn't some random burst of anger or craziness. In most of these situations, that other partner is controlling the victim and abusing them both physically and psychologically to the point they're too afraid to leave or to stay. It isn't "on them". They feel helpless and often are. They need help, not judgement like you're doing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarrylf Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 I don't know why female on male physical abuse gets ignored & treated less seriously, I mean alot of women are stronger than some men. My cousin is a serial man beater (we're all waiting for "OMG HE HIT ME...... ) and she hit's with pans and chairs and objects, sent her guy to the hospital, and according to her, he never hit her back...and their still together Hell even in the media Emma Roberts beat the shit out of her boyfreind (the blonde guy from American Horror Story), and she was arrested, and everybody in the media it seemed was making fun of HIM I think the reason female on male abuse isn't taken seriously is because it's looked at as a joke or something to be embarassed by like "a real man wouldn't stand for that" or "a real man would know how to handle the situation or her", when in reality just like there are bastard women abusing men, there are seriously man abusing bitches. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 That's blaming the victim Not everyone is able to leave after the first beating. Hell, not everyone can leave after the tenth beating. If it was that easy then every victim would have left their partners immediately. This isn't some random burst of anger or craziness. In most of these situations, that other partner is controlling the victim and abusing them both physically and psychologically to the point they're too afraid to leave or to stay. It isn't "on them". They feel helpless and often are. They need help, not judgement like you're doing. Like I said.. EVERY ADULT has a choice to leave... There are always signs before the shit happens.. It's up to you to stop it before it happens.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted May 28, 2014 Share Posted May 28, 2014 Like I said.. EVERY ADULT has a choice to leave... There are always signs before the shit happens.. It's up to you to stop it before it happens.. No there aren't Again, they may have the "choice", but it isn't much of one without the opportunity to ACT on it. That's what most victims lack. If they saw it coming and could stop it then this would never be an issue. Everyone would magically be able to see when trouble is coming and always have the means to avoid it. See how that logic doesn't work? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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