Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 One of my friends broke up with their dude... they haven't been together for a year but they remain friends... I'm cool with his ex well sorta... The dude wants my friend back... I said I could help him... he lost weight and I even got him to dress a bit more urban...and get a better hair cut (hes white)... He said something stupid last weekend... he was drunk though so I don't know. "I heard how you and ur dude get down... was wondering If we can mess around" "I won't tell and please don't tell you know who" At that point I just sat at the bar in shock... and my friend was there with us too his ex... of course he didn't hear him... Sometimes I wonder if I'm too friendly... This happened to me a few times over the years... not much bothers me but this shit do... I'm affectionate with people I care about but I don't lead people on... If I tell my friend I know he going to fuck him up.... if I say something to my boyfriend he is going to be pissed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 One of my friends broke up with their dude... they haven't been together for a year but they remain friends... I'm cool with his ex well sorta... The dude wants my friend back... I said I could help him... he lost weight and I even got him to dress a bit more urban...and get a better hair cut (hes white)... He said something stupid last weekend... he was drunk though so I don't know. "I heard how you and ur dude get down... was wondering If we can mess around" "I won't tell and please don't tell you know who" At that point I just sat at the bar in shock... and my friend was there with us too his ex... of course he didn't hear him... Sometimes I wonder if I'm too friendly... This happened to me a few times over the years... not much bothers me but this shit do... I'm affectionate with people I care about but I don't lead people on... If I tell my friend I know he going to fuck him up.... if I say something to my boyfriend he is going to be pissed. then dont tell u said he was drunk Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 just say no Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 29, 2010 Author Share Posted November 29, 2010 then dont tell u said he was drunk I just don't like the sneaky stuff... and he know I'm not into white guys at all. I thought they said when people get drunk they speak the truth? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 29, 2010 Author Share Posted November 29, 2010 just say no I did say no.... he call me and text me now I just ignore him... hes on his own to get my friend back.. I'm done... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 I just don't like the sneaky stuff... and he know I'm not into white guys at all. I thought they said when people get drunk they speak the truth? :lol: u r right about that! drunk man tell no lies as the saying goes! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 29, 2010 Author Share Posted November 29, 2010 :lol: u r right about that! drunk man tell no lies as the saying goes! Imma just keep my mouth shut my friend has a bad temper... he chocked out some dude before over an email so Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 Its none of your friends business if his ex wants to get into your pants. Its up to you as the friend to say no to his advances. The issue is between you and the guy, he tried it on with you and its up to you to tell him that you don't appreciate his advances because you have a bf and you aren't into him, and that its inappropriate because he is your friends ex. Thats all that needs to be said. I wouldn't even bring it up at all. If that happened to me, I woulda just laughed and said "yeah right" and sipped my drink. End of. This guy can try it on with whoever he likes, he is single after all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 Imma just keep my mouth shut my friend has a bad temper... he chocked out some dude before over an email so I would be concerned about the behaviour of the above friend moreso than the ex who tried it on with you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 29, 2010 Author Share Posted November 29, 2010 I would be concerned about the behaviour of the above friend moreso than the ex who tried it on with you! Well thats another story... It was actually kinda justified... Dude was emailing nasty pics to people online and he was trying to date my friend and come at him as if he was the one that was cheating... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EphraimAdamz Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 i wonder about yall Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 Its none of your friends business if his ex wants to get into your pants. Its up to you as the friend to say no to his advances. The issue is between you and the guy, he tried it on with you and its up to you to tell him that you don't appreciate his advances because you have a bf and you aren't into him, and that its inappropriate because he is your friends ex. Thats all that needs to be said. I wouldn't even bring it up at all. If that happened to me, I woulda just laughed and said "yeah right" and sipped my drink. End of. This guy can try it on with whoever he likes, he is single after all. Paul always knows Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 i wonder about yall Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dee Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 Its none of your friends business if his ex wants to get into your pants. Its up to you as the friend to say no to his advances. The issue is between you and the guy, he tried it on with you and its up to you to tell him that you don't appreciate his advances because you have a bf and you aren't into him, and that its inappropriate because he is your friends ex. Thats all that needs to be said. I wouldn't even bring it up at all. If that happened to me, I woulda just laughed and said "yeah right" and sipped my drink. End of. This guy can try it on with whoever he likes, he is single after all. take this chimps advice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 Paul always knows Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 take this chimps advice Awww ur such a sweetie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dee Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 Awww ur such a sweetie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 Yeah just keep it between y'all. I kept it a secret for 2 months when Israel bit me on my face in the str8 club and I didn't tell Raf about it. I just didn't know if he'd get mad at me or Israel or if I should tell him in the 1st place cause he probably wouldn't care. Hell I didn't know period with all those mixed signals he would give me back then. I ended up telling him which I probably shouldn't have cause everytime I brought him up he'd get mad thinking I wanted the penis Ok now so is your friend Black who has this ex trying to get your Johnson? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 One of my friends broke up with their dude... they haven't been together for a year but they remain friends... I'm cool with his ex well sorta... The dude wants my friend back... I said I could help him... he lost weight and I even got him to dress a bit more urban...and get a better hair cut (hes white)... He said something stupid last weekend... he was drunk though so I don't know. "I heard how you and ur dude get down... was wondering If we can mess around" "I won't tell and please don't tell you know who" At that point I just sat at the bar in shock... and my friend was there with us too his ex... of course he didn't hear him... Sometimes I wonder if I'm too friendly... This happened to me a few times over the years... not much bothers me but this shit do... I'm affectionate with people I care about but I don't lead people on... If I tell my friend I know he going to fuck him up.... if I say something to my boyfriend he is going to be pissed. keep it between you and that guy tell him no, cause that's messy and dont speak to me about it again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 Yeah just keep it between y'all. I kept it a secret for 2 months when Israel bit me on my face in the str8 club and I didn't tell Raf about it. I just didn't know if he'd get mad at me or Israel or if I should tell him in the 1st place cause he probably wouldn't care. Hell I didn't know period with all those mixed signals he would give me back then. I ended up telling him which I probably shouldn't have cause everytime I brought him up he'd get mad thinking I wanted the penis Ok now so is your friend Black who has this ex trying to get your Johnson? messy anecdote not needed Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 why are gay dudes so damn messy? All I want is someone to settle down with, if he's attractive and got his head on his shoulders right like me its all good, but these dudes just be on some sex shit, my ex talked to someone I knew and that guy broke it down for me, he was like your ex is a freak and you cant make a housewife outta a ho. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 All the boys want your big, 10 inch dick.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 All the boys want your big, 10 inch dick.. for some its all about dick, thats all they want, am I the only dude here that could settle for ONE good piece of ass? Why do all the gay dudes I know want to fuck everything they can? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 messy anecdote not needed Excuse me? I'm just giving him an example of why he probably shouldn't tell cause all thats gonna be stuck in his friend's mind is that them 2 might hook up or want each other Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted November 29, 2010 Share Posted November 29, 2010 Excuse me? I'm just giving him an example of why he probably shouldn't tell cause all thats gonna be stuck in his friend's mind is that them 2 might hook up or want each other uggggghhhh i think im going str8 im tired of fucking wit ya'll i just want a white picket fence and the man to match that wants to commit Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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