You make a hell of alot of sense. That is why I gave you a +1. I get the fact that children shouldn't have legitimate over-bearing parents, but sheltering them and protecting them from things YOU KNOW can/may/will harm them is what parents SHOULD be doing. Saying that "they're gonna do it anyway" or "I don't wanna be too forceful, I wanna be my kids' best friend" is idiotic. More often than not, sometimes a parent has to put their foot down on certain things. Just because something is popular, doesn't mean everyone or anyone should be involved in it.