bu. Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 I'm tired. I need more variety. I'm 21 and I feel like I'm just wasting away. I have little to no friends where I live because all my other friends failed and are resitting their final years at uni. My family are just...let's not even go there. I need more excitement. I'm so depressed feeling like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selz Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 June 30th Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted April 8, 2011 Share Posted April 8, 2011 It's your life, and you only have one, decide what you want and go for it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dungeon Dragon Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 Manchester for you Why did all your friends fail their last year of uni ? lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted April 9, 2011 Author Share Posted April 9, 2011 June 30th If I haven't killed myself with boredom before then It's your life, and you only have one, decide what you want and go for it I don't know what I want though Manchester for you Why did all your friends fail their last year of uni ? lol For real! It's an utter borefest here. They failed cos they're dumb lol. They got into the student life too much I guess. I wish I was back there doing a course that would actually make a difference though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dungeon Dragon Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 If I haven't killed myself with boredom before then I don't know what I want though For real! It's an utter borefest here. They failed cos they're dumb lol. They got into the student life too much I guess. I wish I was back there doing a course that would actually make a difference though. oh lawdy ... What did you do ? Have you looked for jobs ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted April 9, 2011 Author Share Posted April 9, 2011 oh lawdy ... What did you do ? Have you looked for jobs ? Business Management. At least if I did Dentistry or something like that then I could go into something specific. I've been applying since before I graduated last June and haven't found a thing . Luckily I'm working at my dads accountancy firm for now. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selz Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 I'm tired. I need more variety. I'm 21 and I feel like I'm just wasting away. I have little to no friends where I live because all my other friends failed and are resitting their final years at uni. My family are just...let's not even go there. I need more excitement. I'm so depressed feeling like this. I felt like this when I was your age I think, and it's important that you get out and do things if you can. Now I'm 33 and currently feel like my life is pretty pointless, plus I have massive issues with anxiety and now if I am invited to do something, like to a wedding reception or something, I freak out and can't go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted April 9, 2011 Author Share Posted April 9, 2011 I felt like this when I was your age I think, and it's important that you get out and do things if you can. Now I'm 33 and currently feel like my life is pretty pointless, plus I have massive issues with anxiety and now if I am invited to do something, like to a wedding reception or something, I freak out and can't go. That's exactly how I feel now ! Anxious all the time. It sucks because I should be enjoying myself whilst I can Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dungeon Dragon Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 You really should be making an effort to really enjoy your life at this age. Don't sit around wasting time doing pointless shit and even if it means going somewhere completely new, just do it. I don't like 'what if's' and 'buts' Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dungeon Dragon Posted April 9, 2011 Share Posted April 9, 2011 I felt like this when I was your age I think, and it's important that you get out and do things if you can. Now I'm 33 and currently feel like my life is pretty pointless, plus I have massive issues with anxiety and now if I am invited to do something, like to a wedding reception or something, I freak out and can't go. not pointless AT ALL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eli's_rhythm Posted April 10, 2011 Share Posted April 10, 2011 You guys are being so idealistic... if every 21-year-old could "just enjoy life" and disregard any financial/personal responsibilities, they would go and take a backpacking trip through Spain and Italy and live in hostels with aspiring supermodels. You can't just uproot like that. If you're feeling stagnant and unhappy, though, you SHOULD obviously do something about it. My 18-year-old advice is to never let that "pointless" mindset take over. Even if what you do for school/work is boring and useless, it doesn't mean your entire life is pointless and depressing. Do you have any hobbies? Are you in a relationship? I'm assuming you're gay; are you out? Take a risk on something. Try something new... And it doesn't even have to be for your own gain. Maybe you could do charity work or something, make yourself feel like you're helping the world just a bit. Or just help yourself. Take a weekend trip somewhere relaxing. Talk to a stranger at school. Buy new clothes. Work out more and look sexy. IDK. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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