To me the BIG difference is that on Mob Wives, everyone is on the same level. They all are bad bitches, and want to show how bad they are. On BBW, some of the ladies want to show that they are above the fighting and ghetto behavior. Some of the ladies, want to be seen as ladies, and when they back down, they are attacked, bullied, insulted and treated like shit, in some cases by two or three others.
It's like comparing watching two tigers fight in the wild, to watching two pit-bulls attack a chiwawa. One is exciting, one is sad.