I understand being somewhat caught up in the middle, because most of the apps gays are on are geared towards sex. Not everyone is looking for meaningless sex, but as men we have needs to fill too. Im a romantic very much so but you gotta see things as they are not as you want them to be. It's a lot of not so bueno shit going on in the gay communities. Its some good shit too, but these dudes the things I read, see and hear, its like fuck it Im gonna be single forever