Aquaria Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 Is "love" worth it? Every good moment you have will only make it hurt more when it ends. Thoughts, opinions, comments (hugs?) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
eli's_rhythm Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 If it's really love, it won't end. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted October 24, 2011 Author Share Posted October 24, 2011 But if nothing lasts forever what makes love the exception? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--- Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 Nice avatar But no, its not worth it best being on your own and having nice friends why go through all that emotional drain...it only gets in the way of things u wanna do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted October 24, 2011 Author Share Posted October 24, 2011 Nice avatar But no, its not worth it best being on your own and having nice friends why go through all that emotional drain...it only gets in the way of things u wanna do Thanks I am such a scared wide eyed lil chicklet in the world and every experience I have jades me more. I don't want to feel like that. To me it's just like... why put yourself through it if you know that every amazing moment you have is going to make you hurt that much more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
God Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 Is "love" worth it? Every good moment you have will only make it hurt more when it ends. Thoughts, opinions, comments (hugs?) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laveaux Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 i feel that whenever you have the chance to fall in love, by all means do so. its always worth it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted October 24, 2011 Author Share Posted October 24, 2011 aw thank you honey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--- Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 Thanks I am such a scared wide eyed lil chicklet in the world and every experience I have jades me more. I don't want to feel like that. To me it's just like... why put yourself through it if you know that every amazing moment you have is going to make you hurt that much more. People are garbage and if u worried about all this soulmate stuff, forget about it u complete urself.. u dont need no damn person to complete u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted October 24, 2011 Author Share Posted October 24, 2011 i feel that whenever you have the chance to fall in love, by all means do so. its always worth it. *sigh* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laveaux Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 *sigh* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
William Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 :hugs: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--- Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 if ur going through something, u will get over it just gotta let yourself to go new experiences and new adventures As Oprah says, love is not supposed to hurt So if it is hurting, its not love Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted October 24, 2011 Author Share Posted October 24, 2011 People are garbage and if u worried about all this soulmate stuff, forget about it u complete urself.. u dont need no damn person to complete u this is true if ur going through something, u will get over it just gotta let yourself to go new experiences and new adventures As Oprah says, love is not supposed to hurt So if it is hurting, its not love Yes... I've heard that. I know ur a buffy fan, so you remember how Buffy never got over Angel because it "hurt" and was dramatic and all that and riley was kind of "Meh." I don't think it should hurt though... but it can be complicated. There are ups and downs but if its causing more harm than good then yeah, I don't think that's healthy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted October 24, 2011 Author Share Posted October 24, 2011 :hugs: *hugs* thank u willerboo u and jesse come over for a big boy sleepover to make uncle roc feel better Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--- Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 this is true Yes... I've heard that. I know ur a buffy fan, so you remember how Buffy never got over Angel because it "hurt" and was dramatic and all that and riley was kind of "Meh." I don't think it should hurt though... but it can be complicated. There are ups and downs but if its causing more harm than good then yeah, I don't think that's healthy. Awwww kudos to u for bringing up Buffy... but I think that hurt is different, because they could never be together because of his curse. They are soulmates. And but for the problem, theyd be together. God, u making me cry now...bringing up all that Buffy stuff...one of the most beautiful relationships (despite its drama) Ups and downs is normal..but i dont think thats "hurt"..unsure Angel would never hurt Buffy....even when he left...he did it for her, because they can never be Riley & Buffy...she no love Riley He LOVEDDDDDDDDDD her Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laveaux Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 this is true Yes... I've heard that. I know ur a buffy fan, so you remember how Buffy never got over Angel because it "hurt" and was dramatic and all that and riley was kind of "Meh." I don't think it should hurt though... but it can be complicated. There are ups and downs but if its causing more harm than good then yeah, I don't think that's healthy. thats what alot of people dont understand. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted October 24, 2011 Author Share Posted October 24, 2011 Awwww kudos to u for bringing up Buffy... but I think that hurt is different, because they could never be together because of his curse. They are soulmates. And but for the problem, theyd be together. God, u making me cry now...bringing up all that Buffy stuff...one of the most beautiful relationships (despite its drama) Ups and downs is normal..but i dont think thats "hurt"..unsure Angel would never hurt Buffy....even when he left...he did it for her, because they can never be Riley & Buffy...she no love Riley He LOVEDDDDDDDDDD her Ok yeah I get the distinction... but you see what I mean. It's almost like Riley was too available and 'easy' for Buffy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--- Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 Ok yeah I get the distinction... but you see what I mean. It's almost like Riley was too available and 'easy' for Buffy I dunno if thats I think she loved him in her own way...(she cared about him, appreciate him etc), but not in the way he loved her She cant help it u cant make urself fall in love with someone Perhaps there was just no spark for her Roc, why dont u just say what ur issue is, and then everyone can start giving u advice Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
William Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 As Oprah says, love is not supposed to hurt As Madonna says, only love can hurt like this can Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laveaux Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 Riley & Buffy...she no love Riley He LOVEDDDDDDDDDD her i still remember when Xander had to tell Buffy about herself and she finally realized how much she had taking Rileys love for granted and she looked at Xander like 'What should I do' and he just said simply 'Run' and that bitch broke out ...but it was to late and Buffy was all alone again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--- Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 As Madonna says, only love can hurt like this can Yeh, but i think theres all different distinctions... it depends on how we define hurt, and what hurt we are looking at For eg, if u loved someone deeply, and something fucks up, of course it will hurt and if ur desperately in love with someone (and theyre not), well then that will bloody hurt but, during a relationship, if u love each other, u really wouldnt hurt each other..would u? I think thats what Oprah was getting at People can so easily "i love u", but do u? really? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--- Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 i still remember when Xander had to tell Buffy about herself and she finally realized how much she had taking Rileys love for granted and she looked at Xander like 'What should I do' and he just said simply 'Run' and that bitch broke out ...but it was to late and Buffy was all alone again. Awwwwwwww babe I remember that scene was so epiccccccc loved it!! And then Xander goes and fucks Anya up next season #oop She didnt love Riley...if she did, it wouldnt have go to the point, and she wouldve known what to do Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted October 24, 2011 Author Share Posted October 24, 2011 I dunno if thats I think she loved him in her own way...(she cared about him, appreciate him etc), but not in the way he loved her She cant help it u cant make urself fall in love with someone Perhaps there was just no spark for her Roc, why dont u just say what ur issue is, and then everyone can start giving u advice yeah true I have a good handle on what the issue is, I'm just feeling a bit pessimistic after some things that have happened and wanted some people's opinions on the general idea Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laveaux Posted October 24, 2011 Share Posted October 24, 2011 Awwwwwwww babe I remember that scene was so epiccccccc loved it!! And then Xander goes and fucks Anya up next season #oop She didnt love Riley...if she did, it wouldnt have go to the point, and she wouldve known what to do i was epic. i still watch that scene hoping that Riley will look down and see poor Buffy waving and shit. i know right, Xander is such a punk for that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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