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High School student expelled for doing porn


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While I can agree with most of what you said, the fact remains whether on school grounds or not no one here or elsewhere can deny this has impacted the school and the students. If he was selling weed in a state that says its legal, and not to students it would still have repercussions on the school ....we can't just say anything goes people....that's my point, where do we draw the line of what is acceptable? I ask what do we allow here? What are we teaching kids? What message does it send? You need money hit that pole....you need money go head walk them streets.....I thought so much more of you guys than this

The school isn't condoning him doing porn by allowing him to stay. They are doing too much with expelling him. Again, there are kids there who are probably doing the same or worse, but just haven't been caught. You don't educate them and point them in a better direction by expelling them. You amp up your education and advisement. People will do what they want when they reach legal age whether it's good or bad for them. What looks better on the school is if they pulled him and any other student in not so good predicaments aside and show them that they have more potential and better options than they are choosing. Expelling him is just giving him more reason to do it because then he wouldn't have graduated so no diploma, would have to get his GED if he had any motive to do so since the school practically gave up on him, would have a harder chance getting a degree and then harder to have a career. Force isn't always necessary to change people. Encouragement toward better opportunities can work just as well.

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You answered your own question tbh. He's 18 - teens make mistakes, even legal ones. It's called growing up. Many things aren't acceptable at that age but they do it because they're growing up. Doesn't make it 'right' though. It's just life. Instead of criticizing him and "punishing" him, someone should tell him to do something else instead (what the school should have done in the first place).

It's school. There's always a dude that did everything.

The dude that fucked in the toilets

The dude caught giving head

The dude caught with a teacher

The dude caught smoking weed or smoking fullstop

The dude that cheated on his exams

and so on....

Everyone has a labels in school - I was his age 6 years ago and all those guys mean nothing to me today - in fact I haven't even seen or thought of them until now. In 6 years time he will also be insignificant to his peers as they will be to him.

and those are all reasons/cause for expulsion
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The school isn't condoning him doing porn by allowing him to stay. They are doing too much with expelling him. Again, there are kids there who are probably doing the same or worse, but just haven't been caught. You don't educate them and point them in a better direction by expelling them. You amp up your education and advisement. People will do what they want when they reach legal age whether it's good or bad for them. What looks better on the school is if they pulled him and any other student in not so good predicaments aside and show them that they have more potential and better options than they are choosing. Expelling him is just giving him more reason to do it because then he wouldn't have graduated so no diploma, would have to get his GED if he had any motive to do so since the school practically gave up on him, would have a harder chance getting a degree and then harder to have a career. Force isn't always necessary to change people. Encouragement toward better opportunities can work just as well.

I hear what you're saying, its the school's fault and problem? Yet he's 18 so he can do what he wants too? Sounds a bit confusing, he can do whatever he wants because hes 18, but the school has to be responsible for him too? I think sure provide guidance, send him to each one teach one, but I would issue a statement condemning his choice of porn for money and encourage him to continue schooling in some fashion, he wouldn't get off walking the halls while filming porn too, that wouldn't fly...my first thought is usually the right one, and my first thought is this is wrong, and he put the school in a position they had to do something, the school isn't acting alone, students and other parents have said they don't want him anywhere near
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I hear what you're saying, its the school's fault and problem? Yet he's 18 so he can do what he wants too? Sounds a bit confusing, he can do whatever he wants because hes 18, but the school has to be responsible for him too? I think sure provide guidance, send him to each one teach one, but I would issue a statement condemning his choice of porn for money and encourage him to continue schooling in some fashion, he wouldn't get off walking the halls while filming porn too, that wouldn't fly...my first thought is usually the right one, and my first thought is this is wrong, and he put the school in a position they had to do something, the school isn't acting alone, students and other parents have said they don't want him anywhere near

The school can make a statement saying they don't condone, but they can't condemn him for it. That isn't their job. You keep comparing it to selling drugs and murder and stabbing people but he isn't doing something illegal. He is well within his legal rights to do so. It just isn't in his best interest or theirs. That's someone who needs education and guidance, not punishment.

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The school can make a statement saying they don't condone, but they can't condemn him for it. That isn't their job. You keep comparing it to selling drugs and murder and stabbing people but he isn't doing something illegal. He is well within his legal rights to do so. It just isn't in his best interest or theirs. That's someone who needs education and guidance, not punishment.

that fact its legal doesn't make it right, slavery was legal at some point
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that fact its legal doesn't make it right, slavery was legal at some point

My point isn't that it's right. My point is that he doesn't deserve punishment. He needs education and guidance.

Please tell me you're not comparing his choice to forced labor? :mellow: Those are two VERY different things.

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My point isn't that it's right. My point is that he doesn't deserve punishment. He needs education and guidance.

Please tell me you're not comparing his choice to forced labor? :mellow: Those are two VERY different things.

no Im not Im saying that laws change, and because a rule isn't in place doesn't mean it shouldn't be
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Explain how they're different. Pornstars don't consent? :umm: He's 18. He's an adult.

we all have consensual sex, we don't intentionally set out to film it and get paid for doing so, that is how it's different.....this kid, is in school, high school, so what he's 18, he can do it, but he sure as hell shouldn't and he aint the only person out here struggling to make ends meet, we just don't go out and fuck our way out of poverty, what if theres some other boys or girls for that matter 17 waiting to be 18 thinking hell he did it I want that quick buck too
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I think it's disgusting and so is the mom. This boy is young and later he'll probably regret it. There's plenty of other things to do to make more money than legalized prostitution. Having sex with multiple strangers and having no respect for your body. What makes your body so special when damn near everybody has had it. Sorry I ain't gonna sleep with nobody for no money and especially if I don't find them attractive. Imagine getting paid to sleep with somebody and they come in the room and you think they ugly as hell but yet you have to do it cause it's in your contract smh

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WHO.THE.FUCK died and made any of you Nay Sayers the Moral Compass???????? A grown man can do whatever the fuck he wants to do and/or see fit. You can disagree all day but to talk down on someone becuz of their choices BASED off their struggles (mind you) is absolutely ridiculous. Desperate times cause for desperate measures. Ppl gotta Eat and sometime you have to sacrifice your "morals" in order to survive in this Dog Eat Dog world. I'm disgusted by the judgement in here as if everyone has endless avenues to get by in life. You can't speak on someone else's choices they make to get out the struggle. That would be like wealthy ppl talkin about you becuz you live paycheck to paycheck. Yall can be so disgusting at times. We all got skeletons...and shit we've done that we're not so proud of and/or made mistakes . Should we condemn you too?? Exactly. Yall need to fuckin stop with all this fake ass "Me and my life is perfect and I have morals and never have broken any rules in my life" bullshit

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Who the fuck died and made any of you Nay Sayers the Moral Compass???????? A grown man can do whatever the fuck he wants to do and/or see fit. You can disagree all day but to talk down on someone becuz of their choices BASED off their struggles (mind you) is absolutely ridiculous. Desperate times cause for desperate measures. Ppl gotta Eat and sometime you have to sacrifice your "morals" in order to survive in this Dog Eat Dog world. I'm disgusted by the judgement in here as if everyone has endless avenues to get by in life. You can't speak on someone else's choices they make to get out the struggle. That would be like wealthy ppl talkin about you becuz you li r check to check. Yall can be so disgusting at times.

we can say whatever we want and y'all can stay mad. A whore is a whore. Just cause he supposedly doin stuff to survive don't make it no better. It was to "help" pay bills. They weren't homeless nor on the edge of being homeless or they would've said so just like he said he was just helping pay bills. He can do what he wants cause he is of legal age. He chose porn. How does that make him different from a whore or prostitute? It doesn't. Who's living from paycheck to paycheck? People also steal to make a living, doesn't stop them from being a thief. Should he be suspended? No his business is his business but it still doesn't change the fact that he fucks a lot of strangers for money just like whores and prostitutes.
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we all have consensual sex, we don't intentionally set out to film it and get paid for doing so, that is how it's different.....this kid, is in school, high school, so what he's 18, he can do it, but he sure as hell shouldn't and he aint the only person out here struggling to make ends meet, we just don't go out and fuck our way out of poverty, what if theres some other boys or girls for that matter 17 waiting to be 18 thinking hell he did it I want that quick buck too

So what if he got paid? He's an adult and it was consensual. That's the main thing that matters. It might not be his best career option but it is his choice and he has the right to it. Again, he needs education and guidance, not punishment. He didn't do anything wrong.

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So what if he got paid? He's an adult and it was consensual. That's the main thing that matters. It might not be his best career option but it is his choice and he has the right to it. Again, he needs education and guidance, not punishment. He didn't do anything wrong.

I agree but do you agree he's still a whore? :lol:
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