which is why I said that they have every right to say that they are...doesn't mean that you have to beleive that they are...I really don't care what anyone labels themselves as...you can say you are bisexual til the cows come home for all I care...if I don't consider you to be bisexual, then to me, you aren't bisexual...now, you have every right to say you are, you have every right to beleive you are...I have every right to beleive you are not...I have friends who say they are bisexual that I think are just gay, but i'm not going to tell them they aren't bisexual...they just are not bisexual to me...if someone asks, i'll still say that my friend such and such is bisexual, because that is the label they choose to place on themselves...regardless of what I feel, I am no one to tell them they are not...i'm sure to some people the are, they just aren't to me...that's like Tyler Perry telling me he's straight...he can say it, doesn't mean I have to beleive it