chile if you don't sound just like my aunt right now...my aunt said that exact same thing lol...she always says that about people who go around and continuously talk about how happy they are...she like, "honey, they aren't trying to convince anyone but themselves...don't drink the kool aid"...now, whether that was the case with Janet, I haven't a clue, but i've definitely came across people trying to convince themselves that they are happy...my sister was with a guy for 3 years and this bitch was living a delusional ass life chile lol...when she got out of the relationship it was like she was a brand new person...ok, let me finish eating and watching Oprah...I just had to respond to this post cuz I heard my aunt's voice while I was reading it lol