hotboy06 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 http://pagingdrgupta.blogs.cnn.com/2011/02/03/does-female-sexuality-need-to-be-fixed/?hpt=C2 At Good in Bed, many of our experts are buzzing about a new documentary called "Orgasm, Inc." Directed by Liz Canner, the film chronicles the race by pharmaceutical companies to get FDA approval on “pink Viagra”—a pill to help treat female sexual dysfunction, or FSD. The problem with this approach? As the film demonstrates, there’s no clear definition of FSD, which makes it difficult to determine whether it’s a problem that needs “treatment” or simply an example of the differences between male and female sexuality. The truth is that no one really knows what FSD is: Some people liken it to male sexual dysfunction, but there are major flaws with this comparison. It’s easy to tell when a man has premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction. Female sexuality is less obvious. Women just don’t show clear-cut physical signals when they’re aroused. Another reason that FSD is tough to define is because we tend to label men who don’t climax during sex as “dysfunctional.” Yet an estimated 75 percent of women never orgasm from penetrative sex alone—suggesting that this is normal, not problematic. So maybe we shouldn’t be focusing on “fixing” female sexuality, but changing the ways we have sex so that women more consistently orgasm. Even researchers can’t agree: In 2000, the Journal of Urology offered a few definitions on FSD, including: • Lack of interest in sexual activity • “Phobic avoidance” of sexual contact with a partner • Inability to attain or maintain sexual excitement • Difficulty attaining orgasm • Genital pain or pain during intercourse More than a decade later, there’s still no consensus on which, if any, of these definitions is accurate. And experts aren’t the only ones who are confused: Although studies suggest that the drug flibanserin could be the new “female Viagra,” the FDA recently declined to approve its use for FSD. In one 2010 study from the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, researchers found that women with low sexual desire who took the medication for 6 months had an 18 percent improvement in their libido. But the FDA rejected flibanserin just a month later, saying it failed to completely prove efficacy in treating FSD. Some critics say we shouldn’t be “medicalizing” sex at all and don’t need a pill to treat a condition that may be “all in her head.” After all, lots of women often simply aren’t in the mood for sex, or are distracted by life’s stresses, or just need to start using lubricant. That doesn’t mean they’re dysfunctional. In fact, it may just mean they’re normal: To that end, sex researcher Rosemarie Basson has proposed a new framework for thinking about female sexual response, one that places the importance of emotional intimacy and relationship satisfaction at its center. Basson’s framework contends that female sexual arousal is more complex than a male’s and depends more intensely on factors such as relationship satisfaction, self-esteem, and previous sexual experiences. To me, the issue of FSD isn’t black and white. Sure, FSD isn’t as physically obvious as male sexual problems: Viagra works by increasing blood flow to the penis, giving a man an erection, while flibanserin appears to affect the neurotransmitters (chemical messengers) in a woman’s brain that influence desire. But that doesn’t mean that FSD doesn’t have a physiological component. Side effects of medications (including some antidepressants, blood pressure drugs, and birth-control pills), shifting levels of hormones, stress and anxiety, obesity, and conditions including diabetes and multiple sclerosis can all lower a woman’s desire. So FSD—if it indeed exists—isn’t simply perception, just as it’s not solely physical. My guess is that’s a combination of brain and body—although whether a drug can effectively treat FSD remains unseen. Emily Nagoski, the author of The Good in Bed Guide to Female Orgasms, says, “There’s no such thing as a sexual dysfunction that’s 'all in your head.' Neither is there a sexual dysfunction that’s 'all in your vagina.' There is only the embodied mind. Thus education and behavioral training change physiology.” In the meantime, there’s no reason why women who want to want sex should suffer with low desire. Prescription testosterone cream may help boost desire women who have low levels of this important sex hormone, as can devices such as the Eros device, which uses a gentle vaccuum pump to stimulate blood flow to the genitals. And don’t discount all the “natural” ways that both women and men can increase sexual desire, from trying new things between the sheets to increasing intimacy outside the bedroom. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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lexus97 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 http://pagingdrgupta.blogs.cnn.com/2011/02/03/does-female-sexuality-need-to-be-fixed/?hpt=C2 At Good in Bed, many of our experts are buzzing about a new documentary called "Orgasm, Inc." Directed by Liz Canner, the film chronicles the race by pharmaceutical companies to get FDA approval on “pink Viagra”—a pill to help treat female sexual dysfunction, or FSD. The problem with this approach? As the film demonstrates, there’s no clear definition of FSD, which makes it difficult to determine whether it’s a problem that needs “treatment” or simply an example of the differences between male and female sexuality. The truth is that no one really knows what FSD is: Some people liken it to male sexual dysfunction, but there are major flaws with this comparison. It’s easy to tell when a man has premature ejaculation or erectile dysfunction. Female sexuality is less obvious. Women just don’t show clear-cut physical signals when they’re aroused. Another reason that FSD is tough to define is because we tend to label men who don’t climax during sex as “dysfunctional.” Yet an estimated 75 percent of women never orgasm from penetrative sex alone—suggesting that this is normal, not problematic. So maybe we shouldn’t be focusing on “fixing” female sexuality, but changing the ways we have sex so that women more consistently orgasm. Even researchers can’t agree: In 2000, the Journal of Urology offered a few definitions on FSD, including: • Lack of interest in sexual activity • “Phobic avoidance” of sexual contact with a partner • Inability to attain or maintain sexual excitement • Difficulty attaining orgasm • Genital pain or pain during intercourse More than a decade later, there’s still no consensus on which, if any, of these definitions is accurate. And experts aren’t the only ones who are confused: Although studies suggest that the drug flibanserin could be the new “female Viagra,” the FDA recently declined to approve its use for FSD. In one 2010 study from the American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists, researchers found that women with low sexual desire who took the medication for 6 months had an 18 percent improvement in their libido. But the FDA rejected flibanserin just a month later, saying it failed to completely prove efficacy in treating FSD. Some critics say we shouldn’t be “medicalizing” sex at all and don’t need a pill to treat a condition that may be “all in her head.” After all, lots of women often simply aren’t in the mood for sex, or are distracted by life’s stresses, or just need to start using lubricant. That doesn’t mean they’re dysfunctional. In fact, it may just mean they’re normal: To that end, sex researcher Rosemarie Basson has proposed a new framework for thinking about female sexual response, one that places the importance of emotional intimacy and relationship satisfaction at its center. Basson’s framework contends that female sexual arousal is more complex than a male’s and depends more intensely on factors such as relationship satisfaction, self-esteem, and previous sexual experiences. To me, the issue of FSD isn’t black and white. Sure, FSD isn’t as physically obvious as male sexual problems: Viagra works by increasing blood flow to the penis, giving a man an erection, while flibanserin appears to affect the neurotransmitters (chemical messengers) in a woman’s brain that influence desire. But that doesn’t mean that FSD doesn’t have a physiological component. Side effects of medications (including some antidepressants, blood pressure drugs, and birth-control pills), shifting levels of hormones, stress and anxiety, obesity, and conditions including diabetes and multiple sclerosis can all lower a woman’s desire. So FSD—if it indeed exists—isn’t simply perception, just as it’s not solely physical. My guess is that’s a combination of brain and body—although whether a drug can effectively treat FSD remains unseen. Emily Nagoski, the author of The Good in Bed Guide to Female Orgasms, says, “There’s no such thing as a sexual dysfunction that’s 'all in your head.' Neither is there a sexual dysfunction that’s 'all in your vagina.' There is only the embodied mind. Thus education and behavioral training change physiology.” In the meantime, there’s no reason why women who want to want sex should suffer with low desire. Prescription testosterone cream may help boost desire women who have low levels of this important sex hormone, as can devices such as the Eros device, which uses a gentle vaccuum pump to stimulate blood flow to the genitals. And don’t discount all the “natural” ways that both women and men can increase sexual desire, from trying new things between the sheets to increasing intimacy outside the bedroom. Some critics say we shouldn’t be “medicalizing” sex at all and don’t need a pill to treat a condition that may be “all in her head.” After all, lots of women often simply aren’t in the mood for sex, or are distracted by life’s stresses, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 and the title of your thread was uncalled for :lmao: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 and the title of your thread was uncalled for :lmao: I thought it was an interesting read..especially about the 75 percent of women who don't nut from having sex..poor them..I've heard stories from girls who say they have never orgasmed having sex..that's sad.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 I thought it was an interesting read..especially about the 75 percent of women who don't nut from having sex..poor them..I've heard stories from girls who say they have never orgasmed having sex..that's sad.. yeah it is but i think that comes with time and age.u have to communicate with your partner. if he just rams u like a dog in heat it aint gonna happen women have special spots that need to be handled properly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 yeah it is but i think that comes with time and age.u have to communicate with your partner. if he just rams u like a dog in heat it aint gonna happen women have special spots that need to be handled properly LMFAO @ the comments on Cnn..yeah, I think you are right..I can't see how a man can neglect his woman knowing it's hard for her to nut.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 LMFAO @ the comments on Cnn..yeah, I think you are right..I can't see how a man can neglect his woman knowing it's hard for her to nut.. cuss some don't care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 cuss some don't care. Well that's the general consensus.. I thought eating her pussy would do that.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 Well that's the general consensus.. I thought eating her pussy would do that.. well if it's done right.he gotta know what he's doing. where bzebabe at..im sure she can break it down :lmao: he just can't b down there licking and sucking on the wrong things that aint gonna work Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 well if it's done right.he gotta know what he's doing. where bzebabe at..im sure she can break it down :lmao: he just can't b down there licking and sucking on the wrong things that aint gonna work I'm waiting for her to break it down..mama must be smoking because she comes with some wild shit.. Hmm...the vagina is so complicated..no wonder most men just get there nut..but I know there are some who "take care" of their women.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 I'm waiting for her to break it down..mama must be smoking because she comes with some wild shit.. Hmm...the vagina is so complicated..no wonder most men just get there nut..but I know there are some who "take care" of their women.. I WOULD B ONE OF THOSE LUCKY WOMEN Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 OH AND YES U KNOW SHE WILL PUT HER SPIN ON IT :lmao: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 cuss some don't care. sex is mental.... though so maybe the women just not into their men like that... I don't know why some women don't act slutty for their men and let loose with what they really want... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 I WOULD B ONE OF THOSE LUCKY WOMEN TMI. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 sex is mental.... though so maybe the women just not into their men like that... I don't know why some women don't act slutty for their men and let loose with what they really want... It damn sure is.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 TMI. WELL U ASKED. ME AND MR WELL WE GOOD THERE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 It damn sure is.. I wanna say something but I won't this is about pussy not... gay sex lmao Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 I wanna say something but I won't this is about pussy not... gay sex lmao YEAH KEEP IT ABOUT THE PUSSY WE ALWAYS TALK ABOUT YALL DICKS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 WELL U ASKED. ME AND MR WELL WE GOOD THERE I don't remember asking.. I wanna say something but I won't this is about pussy not... gay sex lmao Ch..when have you not said anything Xternal.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 YEAH KEEP IT ABOUT THE PUSSY WE ALWAYS TALK ABOUT YALL DICKS The power of the meat! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 The power of the meat! WHATEVER DICK IS DICK...THEY PERSON DRIVING THE DICK IS WHAT COUNTS Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted February 3, 2011 Author Share Posted February 3, 2011 WHATEVER DICK IS DICK...THEY PERSON DRIVING THE DICK IS WHAT COUNTS That's true..and pussy is pussy..whoever doesn't have a loose vadge.. *listens to Pac's I get around* Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bzebabe Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 I had to teach my ex how to get me to orgasm...I mean, I would cum, but that is two very different things....but when he got it, he fuckin got it lol...let me stop telling ya'll my business Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted February 3, 2011 Share Posted February 3, 2011 That's true..and pussy is pussy..whoever doesn't have a loose vadge.. *listens to Pac's I get around* BUT WITH A DICK IT DONT MATTER WHO U STICK IT IN A MAN CAN MAKE HIMSELF CUM.. :& Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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