Bailey Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Now this was an interesting read several circumstances I thought were interesting, but despite this applying to women I think it applies to men and women alike. http://yahoo.match.com/y/article.aspx?articleid=12113&TrackingID=526103&BannerID=693282 Reason #1: There’s no passion Reason #2: To delay a breakup Reason #3: Because absence doesn’t make the heart grow fonder Reason #4: To avoid being left out in the cold Reason #5: To make a break from a bad relationship Reason #6: To find that missing piece Reason #7: To give him a taste of his own medicine Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Now this was an interesting read several circumstances I thought were interesting, but despite this applying to women I think it applies to men and women alike. http://yahoo.match.com/y/article.aspx?articleid=12113&TrackingID=526103&BannerID=693282 Reason #1: There’s no passion EXCUSE Reason #2: To delay a breakup EXCUSE Reason #3: Because absence doesn’t make the heart grow fonder EXCUSE Reason #4: To avoid being left out in the cold EXCUSE Reason #5: To make a break from a bad relationship EXCUSE Reason #6: To find that missing piece EXCUSE Reason #7: To give him a taste of his own medicine EXCUSE Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 I already posted this .. and Blatin ...SHUT UP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 I already posted this .. and Blatin ...SHUT UP :wave: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 :wave: you need to do your research on "cheating" .. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 did you go to the link and read the short stories under each reason? The only reason Im seeing missing and I think you will agree, is that sometimes men and women whether gay or str8 are fucking dogs. I mean muthafuckas will do shit simply because they can no rhyme or reason needed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 I already posted this .. and Blatin ...SHUT UP Im sorry Miss Keta I was not aware of this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 ok Blatino man, why do people cheat? If you're not buying any of that other stuff, and I do buy some of it, then if NONE of those reasons make sense to you please do share what does? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 ok Blatino man, why do people cheat? If you're not buying any of that other stuff, and I do buy some of it, then if NONE of those reasons make sense to you please do share what does? They cheat because they can and they want to.. If someone cheated on me I would not want to hear the excuse. You cheated.. we're done.. Good luck dude.. :clapping: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 you need to do your research on "cheating" .. Any answer a cheater gives you is an EXCUSE.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Any answer a cheater gives you is an EXCUSE.. There's a difference between a reason and an excuse. You dont just wake up saying "well Imma cheat today" Its circumstances,situations, and pure temptation that pushes one to cheat. It varies from case to case. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 There's a difference between a reason and an excuse. You dont just wake up saying "well Imma cheat today" Its circumstances,situations, and pure temptation that pushes one to cheat. It varies from case to case. ^^^ this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 They cheat because they can and they want to.. If someone cheated on me I would not want to hear the excuse. You cheated.. we're done.. Good luck dude.. :clapping: so then your reasoning is kinda the one I did NOT see, which is sometimes folks do shit simply because they can. Okay I buy that but only as ONE of the reasons, certainly doesn't cover it all. Some of those stories I read make a lot of sense. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 so then your reasoning is kinda the one I did NOT see, which is sometimes folks do shit simply because they can. Okay I buy that but only as ONE of the reasons, certainly doesn't cover it all. Some of those stories I read make a lot of sense. I dont like the notion of "Well, cuz he can". It explains nothing. We "can do" alot of things But WHAT is the cause of ones actions IS the question and "because he can" is NOT an answer. Its flawed and empty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 so then your reasoning is kinda the one I did NOT see, which is sometimes folks do shit simply because they can. Okay I buy that but only as ONE of the reasons, certainly doesn't cover it all. Some of those stories I read make a lot of sense. They are still all excuses.. If something is missing from your partner and you want something else.. LEAVE.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 I dont like the notion of "Well, cuz he can". It explains nothing. We "can do" alot of things But WHAT is the cause of ones actions IS the question and "because he can" is NOT an answer. Its flawed and empty. Why would you want some bullshit reason???? That's like those chicks that catch their man cheating. They fight and argue and she takes him back. Then he does the same shit again.. And the ones that cheat because their partner cheated are the worst.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 They are still all excuses.. If something is missing from your partner and you want something else.. LEAVE.. Its not that simple. Your partner might have say 80% of what you want right, but someone else got that 20% you been missing, now that 20% look real good when you not getting it, but most folks wit some sense will eventually figure, why leave 80% over this 20% I'm getting? Another common theme in those stories too, is folks did not tell the other they cheated anyway and stayed with them after but only to break up over something else. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Why would you want some bullshit reason???? That's like those chicks that catch their man cheating. They fight and argue and she takes him back. Then he does the same shit again.. And the ones that cheat because their partner cheated are the worst.. Its not that I want a reason...Im like you..I DONT CARE WHAT THE REASON IS! Thats where you tend to lose sight of what Im saying when we talk about this. Humans do things to fill empty voids ALL THE TIME. Therefore if a woman cheats because she doesn't feel that emotional connection with her bf/husband (which is usually why woman cheat) than she has to take FULL responsibility. Its not an exuse..its HER reason. No one is excusing shit if she's still being held responsible for infidelity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 I dont like the notion of "Well, cuz he can". It explains nothing. We "can do" alot of things But WHAT is the cause of ones actions IS the question and "because he can" is NOT an answer. Its flawed and empty. Not entirely, I think some folks get off on keeping secrets and doing shit they know they can get away with. My ex traveled a lot for pleasure and work, so he knew he could tell me anything and since I was not there how could I question any of it or know, couldn't. It really comes down to power, all relationships are a power dynamic, and some people get drunk with power and abuse it because they get off on knowing I have power I could go fuck or get fucked and he won't know shit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Real women don't cheat. Girls do. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 Its not that I want a reason...Im like you..I DONT CARE WHAT THE REASON IS! Thats where you tend to lose sight of what Im saying when we talk about this. Humans do things to fill empty voids ALL THE TIME. Therefore if a woman cheats because she doesn't feel that emotional connection with her bf/husband (which is usually why woman cheat) than she has to take FULL responsibility. Its not an exuse..its HER reason. No one is excusing shit if she's still being held responsible for infidelity. ^^^ I strongly agree with this, we are not excusing anyone's behavior what we are trying to get at is what brought you to having a dick in you that's not supposed to be there, or vice versa. +1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 Its not that simple. Your partner might have say 80% of what you want right, but someone else got that 20% you been missing, now that 20% look real good when you not getting it, but most folks wit some sense will eventually figure, why leave 80% over this 20% I'm getting? Another common theme in those stories too, is folks did not tell the other they cheated anyway and stayed with them after but only to break up over something else. All right for the WDIGM2 flash back.. lol You work on the 20, if that doesn't work out, leave and find someone that is going to give you close to 100.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 5, 2011 Author Share Posted July 5, 2011 like my ex he had trust issues, he did not trust anyone, because basically he fucked everyone over to the degree he believed everyone MUST be like him so they can't be trusted either. So I think he cheated and did shit simply because he figured we all dogs anyway. Now that's some flawed shit. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 ^^^ I strongly agree with this, we are not excusing anyone's behavior what we are trying to get at is what brought you to having a dick in you that's not supposed to be there, or vice versa. +1 I have to go to sleep.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 5, 2011 Share Posted July 5, 2011 ^^^ I strongly agree with this, we are not excusing anyone's behavior what we are trying to get at is what brought you to having a dick in you that's not supposed to be there, or vice versa. +1 Tho blatin doesn't want to admit it..he truly comes off as being jaded about men Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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