bzebabe Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 I love how this thread just changed topic lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 yay Ralhpie!!!! i'm literally doing my happy dance for you lol...up in here being the "true you" chile...*does super happy dance for Ralphie* lol u da best Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laveaux Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 yay Ralhpie!!!! i'm literally doing my happy dance for you lol...up in here being the "true you" chile...*does super happy dance for Ralphie* lol this^ that is truly wonderful. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 I love how this thread just changed topic lol lmfaoo i know im surprised NOBODY questioned me about the pic on facebook, or sent me a message yet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 I'm still great friends with my little stinker and we still hang out just about every week. I'm talking about movies, clubs, or just hanging out at my place and we text each other every single day lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 Maybe, "True You" did inspire him to come out. hahah nah, idk i guess people come into your life and make you look at yourself and ask "am i living for myself" thats why i love my friends, people change everyday and i guess this is one of the changes i have to go through to really love who i am as a person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 lmfaoo i know im surprised NOBODY questioned me about the pic on facebook, or sent me a message yet I thought nothing of it. It doesn't look like a gay pic to me. It looks like 2 homies kickin' it lol. I guess those who are deep into gay stuff can sense it or something. Idk how to say it lol. I guess I don't focus or pay attention to people's pics or what they do unless it really catches my eye Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bzebabe Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 lmfaoo i know im surprised NOBODY questioned me about the pic on facebook, or sent me a message yet lol I thought it was just one of your friends at first...was seriously going to tell you that your friend makes me have impure thoughts lol...then I had to run to the kitchen cuz my food was bout to burn lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 so are you gonna actually come out or keep it a discreet relationship Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 I thought nothing of it. It doesn't look like a gay pic to me. It looks like 2 homies kickin' it lol. I guess those who are deep into gay stuff can sense it or something. Idk how to say it lol. I guess I don't focus or pay attention to people's pics or what they do unless it really catches my eye haha i wish more people were like that, i know i have people on my list who are nosey and gossip way too much for my liking but yeah i hear u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 lol I thought it was just one of your friends at first...was seriously going to tell you that your friend makes me have impure thoughts lol...then I had to run to the kitchen cuz my food was bout to burn lol hahahahahahah love ur honesty but yeah and he looks that much better in person Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 so are you gonna actually come out or keep it a discreet relationship if and when we do get serious and make it a relationship it may be hard at first but i mean people are gonna know, u see how many pics i take, lol so there will be pics, i could never do that to him either why hide something just because other people wanna be ignorant, if what im doing in my life has no effect on your life directly or indirectly, who are you to care? i already told my sis, now i have to work my way to telling my parents Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 haha i wish more people were like that, i know i have people on my list who are nosey and gossip way too much for my liking but yeah i hear u Yeah and I ain't trying to throw shade on anyone but it always seems like its the gays who are quick to pick up on things like this. I don't think i'm saying this right. I mean the gay gays lol. I hope you can understand what I mean hahahahahahah love ur honesty but yeah and he looks that much better in person where did y'all meet and how long you been knowing him? Also I always thought you were bi-racial lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 if and when we do get serious and make it a relationship it may be hard at first but i mean people are gonna know, u see how many pics i take, lol so there will be pics, i could never do that to him either why hide something just because other people wanna be ignorant, if what im doing in my life has no effect on your life directly or indirectly, who are you to care? i already told my sis, now i have to work my way to telling my parents Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 Yeah and I ain't trying to throw shade on anyone but it always seems like its the gays who are quick to pick up on things like this. I don't think i'm saying this right. I mean the gay gays lol. I hope you can understand what I mean where did y'all meet and how long you been knowing him? Also I always thought you were bi-racial lol hahahah i got u joejoe, u mean that whole "gaydar" thing but we met at a club actually, i know thats cliche, but he actually saw me and tapped me on my shoulder that was like a month ago, we've been talking ever since, and im black, french, & spanish hahah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 if and when we do get serious and make it a relationship it may be hard at first but i mean people are gonna know, u see how many pics i take, lol so there will be pics, i could never do that to him either why hide something just because other people wanna be ignorant, if what im doing in my life has no effect on your life directly or indirectly, who are you to care? i already told my sis, now i have to work my way to telling my parents oh ok so he's already out then huh? I don't know...I mean some of my friends know about me. Not a lot but some and then some speculate but I figure what is it their business for me to tell them who or what i'm attracted to or into sexually. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 lmfaooo ur a mess Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
art Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 So what made you want to come out? Did your friends just straight up tell you to or did you gradually convince yourself? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 hahahah i got u joejoe, u mean that whole "gaydar" thing but we met at a club actually, i know thats cliche, but he actually saw me and tapped me on my shoulder that was like a month ago, we've been talking ever since, and im black, french, & spanish hahah Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 oh ok so he's already out then huh? I don't know...I mean some of my friends know about me. Not a lot but some and then some speculate but I figure what is it their business for me to tell them who or what i'm attracted to or into sexually. yeah the only people i feel obligated to tell are my sis which i already did and my parents everyone else can fuck off Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 So what made you want to come out? Did your friends just straight up tell you to or did you gradually convince yourself? i mean i've been with girls before, but i always knew that wasn't it, lol i just had to wait for myself to act on the feelings i was having Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 STOP IT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
art Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 How do you think your parents will react? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted March 8, 2011 Share Posted March 8, 2011 hahahah i got u joejoe, u mean that whole "gaydar" thing but we met at a club actually, i know thats cliche, but he actually saw me and tapped me on my shoulder that was like a month ago, we've been talking ever since, and im black, french, & spanish hahah he just tapped you on the shoulder out of nowhere and said what? And was this a gay club? I think you're like me and have that presence and aura where people feel comfortable and sure of themselves to just come up to you and talk to you whether they're str8 or not. It mostly happens with whites and latins who will just come up to me or just start talking to me without even knowing me. I hardly ever get it from blacks. I've had white and latin males and females even buy me drinks at the club and they didn't even know me. They even get comfortable enough to touch me or even put they damn arm around me while talking to me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted March 8, 2011 Author Share Posted March 8, 2011 How do you think your parents will react? i actually think my mom will be shocked but she'll get over it, i think my dad will take it harder, i actually know he will because hes made some negative comments about being gay before, but he and I dont actually have the r'ship we used to have and we dont talk so i dont know if i really feel the need to tell him i know i can come to my mom about anything, its just i have to figure out how to tell her, lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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