Bailey Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 For those of us that need to know , just dont know, and know all too well, lets start our own handbook for rules of dating and dealing with folks, Im asking for yo contributions because I have learned alot from this board about the do's and don'ts If you break up dont expect your ex NOT to have sex, they was not a virgin when you met so dont think they aint fucking -Bezbe If you met a dude on a sex site dont expect much other than sex most times they a hoe anyway.... feel free to add i need my own guide book it seems in the 21st century the game has changed so tell me what you know about the game? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CalQuin Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 -Don't abandon all of your friends because you want to focus on your relationship -No one likes a robotic/routine lifestyle so don't have robotic standards for your relationship keep it exciting -Clubbing together is a no, especially if its one you frequented before you entered your relationship, old flames alert! -Having sex too quickly will most likely alter the purpose of the relationship -Give them their space and make them look forward to seeing you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted December 5, 2010 Author Share Posted December 5, 2010 I like the dont abandon your friends Ive done it I have seen it done too, the real issue is dont lose who you are by making someone else LIFE Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s.omner Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 I think it's fine to go clubbin' together as long as their not always with me. LOL! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted December 5, 2010 Author Share Posted December 5, 2010 I think it's fine to go clubbin' together as long as their not always with me. LOL! sorry but clubbin together does not work, I have seen many a pair purposely parted by homos on sum moe shit trying to cause drama, two guys dating in the club is drama waiting to happen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dee Posted December 5, 2010 Share Posted December 5, 2010 -Don't abandon all of your friends because you want to focus on your relationship -No one likes a robotic/routine lifestyle so don't have robotic standards for your relationship keep it exciting -Clubbing together is a no, especially if its one you frequented before you entered your relationship, old flames alert! -Having sex too quickly will most likely alter the purpose of the relationship -Give them their space and make them look forward to seeing you you just said everything I wanted to say. I'm goin through the abondonment thing with a friend who just started datng this dude cut all of his friends off. he even has to call us blocked now but their relationdhip is falling apart when it goes we still gone b boys but not as close as before and I'm getting even better with the giving space thing bcuz I'm so used to texting and calling all day but giving space makes our time togeather even better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted December 8, 2010 Author Share Posted December 8, 2010 do not let the ex keep playing with your emotions because they know how to push your buttons, I got mad as hell thinking this silly ho regards me as a toy Do not think you can be friends with an asshole, like Bezebe said if they treated you like shit while you were together he aint getting any better Do not think they will stop "living" over you the real game players only out for themselves which means they will do shit that may hurt you just to do it damn disrespect, sometimes they "cool" when they want to be, dont be a "yes" man/woman, learn to say no and mean it even when you want to say yes I find it helps to look at plenty of people you think are more attractive it helps to make you believe yes there are other fish in the sea Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrietta. Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 <inserts Khia's "Get It and Go" song> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrietta. Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 Yall can go clubbing together Are yall from the freakin Ice Age Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 I've heard its not a good idea to go clubbin together but I've actually seen couples who DO and the nite was fine. It just depends. Some couples will walk out with an argument ahead and some won't. For the ones who are saying DON'T ..What happens if you wanna go out to dance w/ ya baby? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dee Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 Yall can go clubbing together Are yall from the freakin Ice Age I was just clubbin with my boo <southpark girls dancing@ jonas brothers show> I think that's your gif Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrietta. Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 I was just clubbin with my boo <southpark girls dancing@ jonas brothers show> I think that's your gif It is...but since the girls on the gif has "JB" on them, I pretend they're popping to Bieber Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dee Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 It is...but since the girls on the gif has "JB" on them, I pretend they're popping to Bieber Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SianGracious Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 I've heard its not a good idea to go clubbin together but I've actually seen couples who DO and the nite was fine. It just depends. Some couples will walk out with an argument ahead and some won't. For the ones who are saying DON'T ..What happens if you wanna go out to dance w/ ya baby? I guess that hat is self explanatory y'all on some "ATL" shit :lol: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SianGracious Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 Yall can go clubbing together Are yall from the freakin Ice Age But when you go to the club with you dude its less fun and for some people it be feeling awkward Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dee Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 But when you go to the club with you dude its less fun and for some people it be feeling awkward me and mine were@ the club on friday we danced we huged and kissed afterwards not 1 problem all nite Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SianGracious Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 me and mine were@ the club on friday we danced we huged and kissed afterwards not 1 problem all nite Did you go to the gay club? I asked that because you know it would be way more problems at the gay for either one of you far getting hit and that kind of shyt. But I guess it all comes down to how close you and your significant other is and how much you will be willing to tolerate. Me I know I don't go to the club and shyt with my nigga because other hoes always wanting him and be on that jealous bullshyt so I rather go out by myself or wit my bitches. I refuse to fight over dick and yeah these hoes ain't worth getting a ticket for. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrietta. Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 But when you go to the club with you dude its less fun and for some people it be feeling awkward Not with me and mine. When we go out, we drink, dance and keep it going. The ones that have a problem with it are the ones trying to hit on someone in the club. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrietta. Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 me and mine were@ the club on friday we danced we huged and kissed afterwards not 1 problem all nite Same here Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janet.1814 Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 I guess that hat is self explanatory y'all on some "ATL" shit :lol: i was wondering if they were on MARTA cuz they not on the NYC MTA lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 on the club topic from personal experience my baby and I... with his str8 (usually female) friends go to str8 clubs and bars... we don't dance on each other or any kind of PDA but we don't need that... i dance with the girls.. he doesn't dance... we drink.. no drama.. no gays... no awkward run-ins... the last time we went to a gay club was July for a birthday and we had fun.. but we have rules.. i've been in this relationship for a year Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 do not let the ex keep playing with your emotions because they know how to push your buttons, I got mad as hell thinking this silly ho regards me as a toy Do not think you can be friends with an asshole, like Bezebe said if they treated you like shit while you were together he aint getting any better Do not think they will stop "living" over you the real game players only out for themselves which means they will do shit that may hurt you just to do it damn disrespect, sometimes they "cool" when they want to be, dont be a "yes" man/woman, learn to say no and mean it even when you want to say yes I find it helps to look at plenty of people you think are more attractive it helps to make you believe yes there are other fish in the sea the "ex" isn't a dating rule... u shouldn't even be talking to him... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SianGracious Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 Not with me and mine. When we go out, we drink, dance and keep it going. The ones that have a problem with it are the ones trying to hit on someone in the club. True cause I'm use to catching when I go out and I wouldn't want my boo to get mad. But yeah thats another issue do you dance with other men while your out at the club with your man? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 I've been reading the replies on the "Going clubbin w/ya boo" topic.. LET'S GET ONE THING CLEAR ... NO ONE ..gay,str8,black,white,purple or pink ...NO ONE is above any drama that can INDEED take place. When there is PEOPLE. There is always the possibility for DRAMA. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted December 8, 2010 Share Posted December 8, 2010 True cause I'm use to catching when I go out and I wouldn't want my boo to get mad. But yeah thats another issue do you dance with other men while your out at the club with your man? i'd be single if mine EVER did Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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