jarrylf Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 Ever be in a public place and randomly have a great conversation, connection, & vibe with someone knowing they'd make a great friend, only to never see them again because it's not like dating someone where you just go "heres my number/Can I have yours", "wanna catch a movie sometime" etc. It's weird when dating isn't the motive. It's weird. It's something I never dealt with until moving to Cali. In Detroit it wasn't hard for me at all, I had my friends since High School, a ton of cousins my age, friends of friends, etc. But when I moved here, I had nobody, and I live by a college with a ton of people in my age group and seemingly everytime I'd go out to hang somewhere, I'd intereact and have a great convo and connection and we'd never offer up anything where we'd continue on to maybe a great friendship. But now it's been 2 years & because of working & friends of friends I got me a nice little group but those early months were pretty hard. Whats your process/experience like? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 I don't make friends easily. I haven't had a new friend in years. In fact I don't have any friends right now except my childhood best friend. All my school/college/uni friends have been demoted to "Facebook Friends" and we've all just drifted apart. I'm that much of an introvert that it's somewhat hard to make new ones especially now that I work full-time. I guess people think I'm rude and don't approach me but I'm truly not - I'm just shy although it doesn't help that I always have my headphones on. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
downeaznboi Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 I'm really shy so I'd probably need a few drinks first. Probably make the wrong kind of friends that way though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 I'm really shy so I'd probably need a few drinks first. Probably make the wrong kind of friends that way though. hmm you didn't seem shy when I met you lol but then again you were drinking before I got there Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EphraimAdamz Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 Yes it can be strange. House parties are best though.One on one conversations don't make good friend invitations. "We're going a road trip, you wanna come" "Do you smoke? I need a new weed connect" "We're partying in NY as a group, you should come" "The new X-men is out, me and my buddies are going" "I'm having a cookout" Anything else seems a little weird, and is perceived as gay. Especially as men we aren't conditioned to socialize as we get older the same way women are. So many of my buddies get married and only meet new friends through their wife. It's weird. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 I have a small but close group of friends from college. Since then I've made friends through work and dating and very rarely I've met people while out that I'll run into, but we never actually hang out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unbreakable. Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 People are just naturally very attracted to me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 You must be so different in person 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Utopia Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 I go out with friends and they bring friends. If they are cool they join our clique. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EphraimAdamz Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 You must be so different in person Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 As an introvert.. I hate small talk I'm not friends with someone over night. There are steps 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unbreakable. Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 You must be so different in person Not really, I don't need to talk about sending cum through the mail or cum bubbles in milkshakes to do it either. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedSimba Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 I don't make friends easily. I haven't had a new friend in years. In fact I don't have any friends right now except my childhood best friend. All my school/college/uni friends have been demoted to "Facebook Friends" and we've all just drifted apart. I'm that much of an introvert that it's somewhat hard to make new ones especially now that I work full-time. I guess people think I'm rude and don't approach me but I'm truly not - I'm just shy although it doesn't help that I always have my headphones on. Same, especially the last part. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 Not really, I don't need to talk about sending cum through the mail or cum bubbles in milkshakes to do it either. That's nice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unbreakable. Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 That's nice Thank you. Sending a prayer to the people that do those things to seem interesting though. Not having a personality or identity must suck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 I don't have those, what did you say? friends? No I just work and watch tv, spend lots of money and never leave the house, it's not safe outside with you know people around and stuff 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 fuck its the weekend and Im outta weed....I need to get some.... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unbreakable. Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 fuck its the weekend and Im outta weed....I need to get some.... I'm very stocked up. Come over. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 I'm very stocked up. Come over. I been high like every fucking night....posting here and watching tv....I was high as fuck watching the last episode of Game of Thrones last week that aired .....shit was good doe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unbreakable. Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 I been high like every fucking night....posting here and watching tv....I was high as fuck watching the last episode of Game of Thrones last week that aired .....shit was good doe I have a love hate relationship with the green. Sometimes it makes me very energized when I wanna relax. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 I have a love hate relationship with the green. Sometimes it makes me very energized when I wanna relax. oh no Im very analytical on weed, I mean high enough I get some serious clarity ...oh and I love to clean high, I woke up and was like how did my jeep get so clean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 fuck its the weekend and Im outta weed....I need to get some.... I have a love hate relationship with the green. Sometimes it makes me very energized when I wanna relax. Y'all Smoke? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 Thank you. Sending a prayer to the people that do those things to seem interesting though. Not having a personality or identity must suck. Yeah that must suck... How do you cope? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 Y'all Smoke? yea I was high as fuck reading your posts in the Mariah thread....cracking up I was like "Twisty" :lmao: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unbreakable. Posted June 13, 2014 Share Posted June 13, 2014 Yeah that must suck... How do you cope? I don't have to babe. I'm too secure to need to hide behind disgusting sexual references to mask insecurity and boringness. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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