bu. Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 In one person....I wish had more relationships under your belt, its not uncommon for gay men to be in open relationships If it's an open relationship then that's a whole other game...but I got the impression the other dude doesn't know you're fucking his man which is what cheating is...and thus wrong Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 we fuck....that's it ....or did you guys stop having sex with anyone unless their single and available which explains why you're all in satisfying relationships right? What?! That doesn't make sense at all... Sex is sex.. Sex ≠ relationship.. I don't get the correlation between 'sex' and 'satisfying relationships' you tried to make No he has 100% he's not letting go of his 80 for anything ....he wants his 20 too no one has 100% Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 What?! That doesn't make sense at all... Sex is sex.. Sex ≠ relationship.. I don't get the correlation between 'sex' and 'satisfying relationships' you tried to make no one has 100% Im saying if you guys have whatever when u do, is it always some 100% available guy to you? and if so then why are you still single? Why not just marry that dude? If sex was dependent on the other being this or that a lot of gay guys would never get laid Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 If it's an open relationship then that's a whole other game...but I got the impression the other dude doesn't know you're fucking his man which is what cheating is...and thus wrong well apparently not anymore Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 this thread brought out ya'll feelings Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 Im saying if you guys have whatever when u do, is it always some 100% available guy to you? and if so then why are you still single? Why not just marry that dude? If sex was dependent on the other being this or that a lot of gay guys would never get laid From the best of my knowledge, I've only had sexual relations with single men.. unless they lied to me.. That's not my problem no longer One benefit of being single is so I can have sex with other single men without hurting someone else.. I don't want to date every man I put my penis in.. What sense does that make? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 From the best of my knowledge, I've only had sexual relations with single men.. One benefit of being single is so I can have sex with other men without hurting someone else.. I don't want to date every man I put my penis in.. What sense does that make? I wouldn't either, BUT that's only to the best of your knowledge ...you sir probably was someone's sideline and didn't know it Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 I wouldn't either, BUT that's only to the best of your knowledge ...you sir probably was someone's sideline and didn't know it Not knowing yet fucking a taken man....and knowing yet still fucking are two different things . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 I wouldn't either, BUT that's only to the best of your knowledge ...you sir probably was someone's sideline and didn't know it Nope because I ask before I poke bc I have issues with sharing. I can say this... In 2014, I haven't been someone's sideline.. Not knowing yet fucking a taken man....and knowing yet still fucking are two different things . Yes.. Bailey knew he was taken with child and still settled Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 Not knowing yet fucking a taken man....and knowing yet still fucking are two different things . takes two to tango Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 takes two to tango unless one wants to sit out and not be second fiddle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 takes two to tango Both are acting like heauxs, boo. Thot is a son of a gun tbh . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 unless one wants to sit out and not be second fiddle i have some things to consider and more questions for the cheater...that's all folks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarrylf Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 we fuck....that's it ....or did you guys stop having sex with anyone unless their single and available which explains why you're all in satisfying relationships right? I did, you have to confirm that your single before I'll even let you kiss me, and if you're lying oh fuckin well, Im not to blame at all. If you flat out tell me that you're in a relationship, the most of a fuck you'll be given is a hug goodbye at the end of presumably our 1st & last date/meeting From the best of my knowledge, I've only had sexual relations with single men.. unless they lied to me.. That's not my problem no longer One benefit of being single is so I can have sex with other single men without hurting someone else.. I don't want to date every man I put my penis in.. What sense does that make? PRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRREACH! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 oh were done...he came clean...the other doesn't know, and he does feel guilty...I can't be a part of that Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 I just never thought about it....i never thought the way so many in here feel, sideline? Maybe, but I was fucking someone I wanted to fuck and he wanted it.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 that's what Im saying ...if you met a dude, and he hollering at you, that tell me something game, cause if he was not single he shouldn't be acting like he is, that's still on him, Im not asking oh you got a man, from jump? It don't work like that exactly. A guy shouldn't be talking to me or trying to get at me if he seeing somebody. I'm not that invested with him that much at the start to wanna know if he's talking to someone else. Especially not when it's our first time meeting each other The excuses... The excuses. Yall do yall. have at it..I give up With men...Guilty until proven innocent. Like that saying goes expect the worst but hope for the best. You don't put NOTHING pass a man. It's so many ppl i have ran across, and thought "oh, they are so cool" ...."oh, they are so nice" ...."I can't tell he's an str8 honest type" And then WHAT HAPPENS???? Once you lift the curtain, you found out he's like the majority. I'm not saying all men are foul but all men have the capacity to be slick....which is why I said you have to be CAUTIOUS. Play your position well , dnt get played cuz your juss not "jumping to any conclusions" ...those are the ones that get suckered unh unh dayz you can't be doing that. You can't say you can't put nothing past a man. Women do it to. My homegirl at work is married and I met her husband and everything, but yet she's cheating with our co-worker Chad. She tells me when they argue, tells me when they had sex, and everything. I just keep it to myself. In my head I be thinking "Ooo you just some nasty fish ain't you, but you still my girl tho." Her man looks better than Chad and played football. Anyway last month she found out he was cheating on her as well. They hadn't even been married 3 months. Anyway yeah women do it too. IDK how many times I can tell you i've been hit on by women who I know for a fact are seeing someone else but they just don't know I don't like tuna fish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 I was wrong in all this, not ask him the questions, to act like I didn't know once I knew, and now its like "dude you ever feel guilty?" he says yea, so Im like fuck we can't keep doing it, bare in mind I rarely see him, we first met back when I drove a convertible in like 2006 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatOtherFan Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 Excuse me... The ending of what I posted is a true representation of the Dayz on Twitter but the first part of what I said does not contradict ANYTHING that I have said on Twitter. I've even said that stuff on Twitter.. Lamont quit tryna start shit Now, Dayz... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 Now, Dayz... you saying something he not? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatOtherFan Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 you saying something he not? Read his Twitter. Nothing but a big contradiction compared to what he said in this thread. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted June 19, 2014 Share Posted June 19, 2014 I was wrong in all this, not ask him the questions, to act like I didn't know once I knew, and now its like "dude you ever feel guilty?" he says yea, so Im like fuck we can't keep doing it, bare in mind I rarely see him, we first met back when I drove a convertible in like 2006 yeah he feels guilty cause he knows he's doing wrong. Now i'ma ask you this. Were you two messing around before he got with his dude? If yes I wouldn't consider you a side piece. If my ex gets with someone else and he still hits me up to kick it i'ma kick it with him if I feel like it. I wouldn't consider myself a side piece cause i'm simply someone he loves and obviously someone he likes to have sex with. Love + good sex is fine with me whether we're together or not. Notice i'm talking about my ex not some random dude Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 19, 2014 Author Share Posted June 19, 2014 yeah he feels guilty cause he knows he's doing wrong. Now i'ma ask you this. Were you two messing around before he got with his dude? If yes I wouldn't consider you a side piece. If my ex gets with someone else and he still hits me up to kick it i'ma kick it with him if I feel like it. I wouldn't consider myself a side piece cause i'm simply someone he loves and obviously someone he likes to have sex with. Love + good sex is fine with me whether we're together or not. Notice i'm talking about my ex not some random dude Its been so long ago I met him, he didn't have a kid then, maybe the day he told me he had one, which shocked the shit outta me, maybe what he was trying to tell me was he was doing wrong and feeling it, maybe he needed someone to tell him I won't do it again. Today's text messaging was different I came right out and asked him "okay so open or not does he know" and he said no, and then I asked do you feel guilty? he said yea I do feel guilty but then says he has free time next week I don't think I can claim this guy as anything but random, despite years of sex, Ive never eaten with him, never slept in a bed together, never hung out, I ran into him at a bar once, we of course didn't speak to one another he was with a crew of dudes Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted June 20, 2014 Share Posted June 20, 2014 Its been so long ago I met him, he didn't have a kid then, maybe the day he told me he had one, which shocked the shit outta me, maybe what he was trying to tell me was he was doing wrong and feeling it, maybe he needed someone to tell him I won't do it again. Today's text messaging was different I came right out and asked him "okay so open or not does he know" and he said no, and then I asked do you feel guilty? he said yea I do feel guilty but then says he has free time next week I don't think I can claim this guy as anything but random, despite years of sex, Ive never eaten with him, never slept in a bed together, never hung out, I ran into him at a bar once, we of course didn't speak to one another he was with a crew of dudes well i'ma say y'all are somewhat friends. If y'all been keeping in contact for years. He needs to hang out with you at least once but then again are you out or dl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 20, 2014 Author Share Posted June 20, 2014 well i'ma say y'all are somewhat friends. If y'all been keeping in contact for years. He needs to hang out with you at least once but then again are you out or dl out ...we just dont share the same crowd Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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