Twistedvelvet Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Is it possible? Lol And how would you go about it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 naked why don't you "want sex"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 wtf tell him u like him duh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Yeah I do it all the time... Two of my bestfriends do it to me... one time my boyfriend walked in while we were sleeping on each other. True friendship is just that FRIENDSHIP. I'm very affectionate with my friends anyway. So you like him or just want to be friends?? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SloLove Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Is it possible? Lol And how would you go about it? YUP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Yeah I do it all the time... Two of my bestfriends do it to me... one time my boyfriend walked in while we were sleeping on each other. True friendship is just that FRIENDSHIP. I'm very affectionate with my friends anyway. So you like him or just want to be friends?? Okay,Janet Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evil. Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Yeah. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twistedvelvet Posted July 8, 2011 Author Share Posted July 8, 2011 What a relief. Thought I was gonna get ridiculed. Basically I like this guy, he likes me too..we've kissed and cuddled and I really like that...but I realise I'm not sexually attracted to him (not sure where he is on that with me)...so how do I go about asking if he will just be 'close' friends with me, by basically being friends who cuddle and kiss....? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 What a relief. Thought I was gonna get ridiculed. Basically I like this guy, he likes me too..we've kissed and cuddled and I really like that...but I realise I'm not sexually attracted to him (not sure where he is on that with me)...so how do I go about asking if he will just be 'close' friends with me, by basically being friends who cuddle and kiss....? sounds like he's gonna go find a new "friend" to hump and bump after your kissing and cuddling gets old Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 So basically you're lonely and want some kind of affection? I guess Im tryna figure out whats the point in cuddling and kissing with this young man. What if you're feenin for some..you're just gonna find someone else to fulfill that? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Okay,Janet she said that? don't roll those eyes at me lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twistedvelvet Posted July 8, 2011 Author Share Posted July 8, 2011 I guess it is loneliness maybe. But I was enjoying the cuddling and kissing, his company. Im realising though I'm not sexually attracted to him so I don't want it to go there. Either it has to end or we be friends , or friends who cuddle and kiss. I figure we can continue dating other people and if that gets serious we would stop? As for sex, I have a 'fuck buddy' for that lol, just it's not the same, it's not affectionate. This guy i want to be 'close' friends with makes me feel happy inside..the cuddling is affectionate, im just not sexually attracted to him. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 I guess it is loneliness maybe. But I was enjoying the cuddling and kissing, his company. Im realising though I'm not sexually attracted to him so I don't want it to go there. it has to end or we be friends , or friends who cuddle and kiss. I figure we can continue dating other people and if that gets serious we would stop? As for sex, I have a 'fuck buddy' for that lol, just it's not the same, it's not affectionate. This guy i want to be 'close' friends with makes me feel happy inside..the cuddling is affectionate, im just not sexually attracted to him. i wanna know how this goes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 I guess it is loneliness maybe. But I was enjoying the cuddling and kissing, his company. Im realising though I'm not sexually attracted to him so I don't want it to go there. Either it has to end or we be friends , or friends who cuddle and kiss. I figure we can continue dating other people and if that gets serious we would stop? As for sex, I have a 'fuck buddy' for that lol, just it's not the same, it's not affectionate. This guy i want to be 'close' friends with makes me feel happy inside..the cuddling is affectionate, im just not sexually attracted to him. That sucks you have to have two diff men for two diff reasons..Too bad you cant find it all in one guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 That sucks you have to have two diff men for two diff reasons..Too bad you cant find it all in one guy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Are you partaking in that activity or something? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Are you partaking in that activity or something? when i was a child... i'm married now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 when i was a child... i'm married now I didn't have that issue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Doesn't kissing someone mean ur attracted to them? Kissing people I'm not attracted to grosses me out - can't you just have sex with him to see if it's good? You can't have it both ways and just kiss and hug when he wants more, it will hurt him if he really liked you - either be friends or lovers Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Well if you're not sexually attracted to him, then I don't see the problem..but I would cut the kissing out.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twistedvelvet Posted July 8, 2011 Author Share Posted July 8, 2011 Isn't there a big difference between a kiss on the lips and penises bouncing about in open air lol...I think so lol. I am attracted to him, just not all naked. So how do I go about it...should I just be straight up and say I want close friends who cuddle? Or is the insulting. How do I go about it? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Isn't there a big difference between a kiss on the lips and penises bouncing about in open air lol...I think so lol. I am attracted to him, just not all naked. Why don't you go back to stanning for Janhova..she'll guide you to the right answer.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twistedvelvet Posted July 8, 2011 Author Share Posted July 8, 2011 Why don't you go back to stanning for Janhova..she'll guide you to the right answer.. Sadly even this is one topic janhova hadn't covered, or has she? Lol. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Sadly even this is one topic janhova hadn't covered, or has she? Lol. I'm sure she has.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 i dont get how ur not sexually attracted to him if u cuddle and kiss him i dont do that with people if im not sexually attracted first, if u cant picture yourself having sex with him then why would u kiss all up on him, u obv love the closeness you two share Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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