Twistedvelvet Posted July 8, 2011 Author Share Posted July 8, 2011 ^ oh lord @ me having to explain this lol. He is attractive just not got the equipment I was hoping for to go with it...plus theresos the whole other issue for gays being he and I both like to take it and not give. But yes, it is the closeness I like. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 ^ oh lord @ me having to explain this lol. He is attractive just not got the equipment I was hoping for to go with it...plus theresos the whole other issue for gays being he and I both like to take it and not give.But yes, it is the closeness I like. One of yall can take each other's virginity.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Why don't you go back to stanning for Janhova..she'll guide you to the right answer.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chase Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 ^ oh lord @ me having to explain this lol. He is attractive just not got the equipment I was hoping for to go with it...plus theresos the whole other issue for gays being he and I both like to take it and not give. But yes, it is the closeness I like. i was so lost til i got to this point. i thought u were just cuddling and kissin on a dude that u didnt find attractive. when the real issue is yall both like bottoming more. so find a top and have a good time escapade leave ya worries behind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Baby Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 Is it possible? Lol And how would you go about it? You lady boys and your many dramas give me high blood pressure and I hate it cause its bad for my diabetes ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 8, 2011 Share Posted July 8, 2011 i was so lost til i got to this point. i thought u were just cuddling and kissin on a dude that u didnt find attractive. when the real issue is yall both like bottoming more. so find a top and have a good time escapade leave ya worries behind. Is THAT whats underneath all this? OH HELL NAH!!!! that aint hott Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twistedvelvet Posted July 8, 2011 Author Share Posted July 8, 2011 The role is only a small factor. It's that i don't find him sexually attractive, but still attractive and enjoy his affection. Don't wanna lose it but don't wanna have sex = dilemma = help me lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
xu1993 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 What a relief. Thought I was gonna get ridiculed. Basically I like this guy, he likes me too..we've kissed and cuddled and I really like that...but I realise I'm not sexually attracted to him (not sure where he is on that with me)...so how do I go about asking if he will just be 'close' friends with me, by basically being friends who cuddle and kiss....? How/why do you kiss someone you're not attracted to? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RaLpHieReBeL516 Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 How/why do you kiss someone you're not attracted to? thts wht im saying that dont make no kind of sense, at this rate he needs to just find someone else because he's getting into a situation that can easily be avoided Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twistedvelvet Posted July 9, 2011 Author Share Posted July 9, 2011 How/why do you kiss someone you're not attracted to? I am attracted to him. Just not sexually. Of course I could find someone else, that would be the obvious thing to do..but right now I'm feeling lonely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SloLove Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 COMMUNICATION MAN...SEE WHERE HE'S AT WITH IT...THE WORST THING YOU COULD DO IS LEAD HIM ON...EVEN THOUGH YOU MAY NOT BE DOING THAT INTENTIONALLY...HE MAY NOT SEE IT THAT WAY, ESPECIALLY IF YOU VALUE HIS FRIENDSHIP Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Buy a double ended dildo and you can both bounce around together to your hearts content. Problem solved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Buy a double ended dildo and you can both bounce around together to your hearts content. Problem solved. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breathless Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 This story made no sense til u admitted you're both a wet bottom pussy. on top of that, it sound like you were hinting that his penis ain't cute n small so you know for sure there ain't no chance in hell y'all gone dyke it out. Look honey bun, just tell him y'all can be judies that partake in lesbian bar room kissing for the crowds but that is where it starts and ends. Or you can just tell him that we like the same shit and you need that Ying to your Yang and he only serving Yoko. Feel me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twistedvelvet Posted July 9, 2011 Author Share Posted July 9, 2011 Lol....speechless. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Did you know he was a btm boy when ya'll first met? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Twistedvelvet Posted July 9, 2011 Author Share Posted July 9, 2011 Hmmm, sort of, I thought he maybe versatile though, especially in a relationship,, but now I know for sure he won't be topping. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 9, 2011 Share Posted July 9, 2011 Hmmm, sort of, I thought he maybe versatile though, especially in a relationship,, but now I know for sure he won't be topping. See..thats the tricky thing with vers kats. THey seem to always lean more one way than the other...I stay clear of vers dudes. I just cant fuck wit em. turn offf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted July 10, 2011 Share Posted July 10, 2011 One of u can top.. There's no law stating you can't top just because you're a "certified" bottom... Unless your thinkgy doesn't work.. Then that's a whole 'nother issue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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