Paul Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 I'm not saying latoya had bad intentions, she was sweet. She was just inappropriate. Yes it's nice to hear from someone who can relate at an appropriate time, if you ask for it. Not in an initial message of condolence or congratulations. As I said, it is basic manners and prevents people from saying that you are selfish or insensitive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 I'm not saying latoya had bad intentions, she was sweet. She was just inappropriate. Yes it's nice to hear from someone who can relate at an appropriate time, if you ask for it. Not in an initial message of condolence or congratulations. As I said, it is basic manners and prevents people from saying that you are selfish or insensitive It was twitter, she wasn't sitting down having tea with her family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Keri Hilson is the one that did too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 Keri Hilson is the one that did too much. Gaga and Rihanna, too. Rick Ross...kinda. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*~WhitePicketDreams~* Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Y'all giving Queen Toya too much. I am sure she was just trying to relate to the Amy situation. She didn't mean any harm. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Just because other people did too much doesn't mean latoya didn't Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*~WhitePicketDreams~* Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Gaga and Rihanna, too. Rick Ross...kinda. What did Ricky and his tiddays say?! I didn't read anything about him making a comment. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 What did Ricky and his tiddays say?! I didn't read anything about him making a comment. Well he said that he always wanted to work with her, R.I.P., and that he's "lighting one in her honor". Which if it proves overdose was a factor in her demise, that isn't too kind. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*~WhitePicketDreams~* Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Well he said that he always wanted to work with her, R.I.P., and that he's "lighting one in her honor". Which if it proves overdose was a factor in her demise, that isn't too kind. Yea he did too much. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 Yea he did too much. Regrettably Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aed05 Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Sometimes its best to just say rest in peace and leave it at that. Personally I don't have a problem with what Toy said, but I knew as soon as I opened this link that she would relate Amy's death back to MJ some how. What she said was true. When you experience a similar pain it allows you to empathies not just feel sympathy. But because she is seen as an attention whore who lives off her brothers name her intentions are being misunderstood. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laveaux Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 she didnt have to say anything, so the fact that she was trying to relate to Amy's passing through what she experienced with Mikes death, i can understand that. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dungeon Dragon Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 I don't understand why she says it like only she can relate. Anybody who loses a very close relative can relate regardless. Did she think the fame would make a difference Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 I don't understand why she says it like only she can relate. Anybody who loses a very close relative can relate regardless. Did she think the fame would make a difference Exactly! Good point. We all will or have lost people very close to us in our family, so we can all relate, which is another reson why I don't see the need for her to bring herself into it like that, plus the manners issue that I raised. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dungeon Dragon Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Exactly! Good point. We all will or have lost people very close to us in our family, so we can all relate, which is another reson why I don't see the need for her to bring herself into it like that, plus the manners issue that I raised. You know Latoya will ride michaels death to her very own dying day ... she'll probs have a shit load of cameras around her death bed talking about "Now I know how Michael felt" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Why are yall making this a big deal? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
*~WhitePicketDreams~* Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Why are yall making this a big deal? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Breathless Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 think before you speak. you're asking a pretty big favor from them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Why are yall making this a big deal? It's not a bog deal, but this was posted on a discussion forum, so I chose to give my opinion. I clearly stated that it was a sweet gesture but she didn't need to put herself or her own feelings into the mix in order to empathise. It's bad manners and inappropriate. That isn't even a discussion point - it's a fact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 It's not a fact Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 It's not a bog deal, but this was posted on a discussion forum, so I chose to give my opinion. I clearly stated that it was a sweet gesture but she didn't need to put herself or her own feelings into the mix in order to empathise. It's bad manners and inappropriate. That isn't even a discussion point - it's a fact. Why are you so invested in what 'a Latoya Jackson' is saying of all ppl. I could care less about what that lady is talking about. But I guess...you all may proceed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miss Enjoi Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 At least she gave her time. I could care less about how she said it. It's nice to hear positivity since it seems to be so rare nowadays. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 At least she gave her time. I could care less about how she said it. It's nice to hear positivity since it seems to be so rare nowadays. Exactly! Thats all that matters. Ppl dissecting what she said is beyond ridiculous. And lets not act like every single word that has came out of our mouths have been appropriate. PLEASE. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 It's not a fact It is a fact. It is considered bad manners and insensitive to bring yourself into it when congratulating or consoling someone. Just because you are ignorant to it, or you dint agree doesn't mean it isn't true. When you wish someone a happy birthday do you write about your own birthday in the card? No, because it isn't about you, your feelings, your experience, it's about them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatOtherFan Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Paulina...let it go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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