EphraimAdamz Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Me and a few buddies are discussing the possibility of going to China on a trip. One friend however is a little upset that we did not invite him. Now let me explain that this is a trip for the fellas. Wherever we go it will be to explore the culture, food, party, and of course ........ sex. I mean how dare we go to another country and not get laid? Anyways the reason he didn't make it on the list is because we've constantly heard him say plenty of times that he's not into Asians. Now I know this is a touche subject for some people but how do you feel about this "No Black/White/Asian" stuff when it comes to hooking up, and dating, and online sites, and chat rooms, and stuff? I myself am not a huge fan of Indian features.... but I know that if I went to India and explored the cream of the crop where there's MILLIONS of Indian people, I'm pretty sure I'm gonna come across a few that I wanna nail. I said there's 49 different Asian nationalities and you're telling me that there's no possibility that you might find a single Asian person on this planet to be attractive? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 It bothers me. I see on profiles a lot "No asians", "Whites only", "Blacks only", "no blacks" etc and it really annoys me. I don't mind if your dick or pussy doesn't get tickled by another race but advertising it is such a fucking turn off not just for members of the race you're not into but also for some members of the same race who actually have some tact. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Utopia Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 But what does some of you wanting to get laid have to do with him not being into Asians? I mean... You are there you like Asians do you, but to not invite someone just cuz that person does not want to have sex with Asians? El oh El... It's like not inviting him cuz he doesn't want to eat the same food as you... THE foolishness of it all. AAs for racial preferences... You can't help to like what you like I see no problem with that as long as it's not meant or stated in a racist derogatory way. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 But what does some of you wanting to get laid have to do with him not being into Asians? I mean... You are there you like Asians do you, but to not invite someone just cuz that person does not want to have sex with Asians? El oh El... It's like not inviting him cuz he doesn't want to eat the same food as you... THE foolishness of it all.AAs for sexual preferences... You can't help to like what you like I see no problem with that as long as it's not meant or stated in a racist derogatory way. I don't mind but I don't like seeing it advertised because a lot of people are so rude with it. I agree though overall. Not inviting the friend was petty and silly. It's not as if everyone that goes on holiday only goes to get laid . What about seeing a new culture/place and experiencing new stuff? It's not all about sex. I'm going to Paris next week - but I'm going to experience some of the iconic landmarks and re-create Janets Come Back To Me video, not to have sex - but if that happens then I guess it's a bonus Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Utopia Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 I don't mind but I don't like seeing it advertised because a lot of people are so rude with it. I agree though overall. Not inviting the friend was petty and silly. It's not as if everyone that goes on holiday only goes to get laid . What about seeing a new culture/place and experiencing new stuff? It's not all about sex. I'm going to Paris next week - but I'm going to experience some of the iconic landmarks and re-create Janets Come Back To Me video, not to have sex - but if that happens then I guess it's a bonus Sis... Gotta read between the lines, they are after lady boys and the friend is not here for fake tuna so they didn't invite him. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Advertising it can make you appear to be an asshole. Everyone has their preferences, of course, but when you actually say these out loud you come off as a prick especially since many say it so carelessly it can be offensive. You have every right to not be attracted to one race or another, or to one or a few races exclusively, however there is usually never a need to say it out loud unless asked. Even then, one should have the decency to be polite and respectful whether showing interest in one or not since race is such a sensitive topic. I have my own preferences, but I'd never actually announce what they are as I've never had reason to even when approached by someone who fits or doesn't fit those preferences. You can love whomever you love, like whatever you like, but respect should be universal. 4 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Escapade Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 I can't have a racial preference until I have met every man from that race. I think it's silly to write an entire race off. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 I get the impression that the OP wanted to discuss the exclusion of some races by others more than anything else, the first part of the topic reads like an excuse to discuss the second as o+A pointed out what does one have to do with the other? As for race, I believe most here hit it on the nail, especially Bu and those of us affected by it. Like what you like, do you, but the dismal of entire races says that person is short sighted, I have found someone of every race attractive, I mean I can recall just coming across folks in everyday life, like damn, he fine as hell, and their race didn't define nor limit them in that area. Escapade was very on point, it's very foolish to dismiss an entire race...Mrs. Reyna hit the ball outta the park, promoting hatred by openly excluding someone based on their race alone suggests to the world they too should follow the same path, and often it's "no Blacks, no Asians" .... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paul Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Plenty of people go on holiday without needing to have sex. They enjoy the culture and sights. In fact that's what most people on holiday do. If you didn't invite him just because he's unlikely to have sex then you're really basic. P.s Good luck indulging in random sex in China. You're about as likely to get lucky as he is. If sex is your goal go to Thailand or somewhere. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Plenty of people go on holiday without needing to have sex. They enjoy the culture and sights. In fact that's what most people on holiday do. If you didn't invite him just because he's unlikely to have sex then you're really basic. P.s Good luck indulging in random sex in China. You're about as likely to get lucky as he is. If sex is your goal go to Thailand or somewhere. I thought about that too....that's why I can't travel with some gay friends I know because all they want to do is bar it up and screw.....when I want to go to the museums or taste local cuisine. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Will you be videotaping these sexcapades? 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Will you be videotaping these sexcapades? Probably he like the camera, and the camera loves him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Probably he like the camera, and the camera loves him I'm looking forward to The Dark Knight: Uncut Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 I'm looking forward to The Dark Knight: Uncut Im hoping for 1080p Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 I'm looking forward to The Dark Knight: Uncut I'm here for The Dark Knight Rises: Directors Cut Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Utopia Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Not THEM thinking that everything that bathes in the deep waters of Chaiwopu Lake is fish You lady boy? you... you lady BOY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Sis... Gotta read between the lines, they are after lady boys and the friend is not here for fake tuna so they didn't invite him. Crying. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Not THEM thinking that everything that bathes in the deep waters of Chaiwopu Lake is fish You lady boy? you... you lady BOY I wouldn't be surprised if OP dabbles in lady BOYS too x Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Eff, my thing with you on this particular subject is... You say "oh,he was not invited because he doesn't like Asian women" But your logic is "of all the Asian women out here, you have got to find one that makes ur dick jump" Be that its true, then why not invite him? If anything wouldn't you all want to broaden his horizons by bringing him along cuz it juss might shift his preference and/or dislike for Asians, even if its just a smidge. By excluding him is not gonna bring him any closer to your logic.Not that what he likes or dislikes should be that important to you anyway. And tbh, scratch all that.. you should have put the invitation out there cuz he's a friend...let him decide if he wants to decline or not. But you got the nerve to sit up here and make a thread about him as if he's done something wrong when you were the one to take his options away (or was apart of the decision). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedSimba Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Yeah, if you invite him he might be, uh, "enlightened." Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Eff, my thing with you on this particular subject is... You say "oh,he was not invited because he doesn't like Asian women" But your logic is "of all the Asian women out here, you have got to find one that makes ur dick jump" Be that its true, then why not invite him? If anything wouldn't you all want to broaden his horizons by bringing him along cuz it juss might shift his preference and/or dislike for Asians, even if its just a smidge. By excluding him is not gonna bring him any closer to your logic. Not that what he likes or dislikes should be that important to you anyway. And tbh, scratch all that.. you should have put the invitation out there cuz he's a friend anyway (or was apart of the decision). Yaaas!!! Go in on Effrem's ass! Hell i'm sure Effrem will find an asian guy he's attracted to out there during his visit 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vibeology Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Seems like a lame reason not to invite your friend..and isn't it up to him whether he needs to have sex or not? Seems that's the primary reason for your travels. Having just come back from China, i bet you would have a great experience with or without sex...if you keep your attitude in check I'm not fazed by racial preference (tho strikes me as odd when someone is not attracted to their own). I wonder as to why people get so "offended" by someone stating preference in a profile..."sorry i'm not into black guys", why should i be offended? That's their preference/ignorance so i move on. Unless someone is outright abusive about race, i'm not fussed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Utopia Posted September 1, 2014 Share Posted September 1, 2014 Drag IT gurls, spare no follicle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EphraimAdamz Posted September 2, 2014 Author Share Posted September 2, 2014 We're most likely gonna take him, but I mean you're with the fellas. We plan to party and have a big hotel. Most of it will be tourist attractions anyways so I know the likely hood of sleeping with actual Asian natives isn't that serious. I guess were just hoping that his feelings aren't anything deeper than beyond the bedroom. He constantly has asian jokes.I don't wanna visit another country with a group of ignorance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HollyHood Posted September 2, 2014 Share Posted September 2, 2014 Drag IT gurls, spare no follicle You just did NAWT use a King Megaman gif! 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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