bu. Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 But to be offended by their ignorance? I find it demeaning when a person expresses to the whole world just how unattractive they find certain races on the other. 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vibeology Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 Listing what you want should be easier than listing what you don't "Looking for a yellow sweater" vs. "Looking for a sweater that is not brown, orange, or with stripes" Ok i see your point I recognize the close-minded-ness/internal racism of people who focus on race But I was referring to other classifications (fat, old, flamer etc) Im looking for a slim, young masculine guy?! Though interpretations of all of those can vary some of the "masculine" dudes ive spoken to This is what ppl don't understand. You've spent your 500 characters talking about all the shit you don't want, but to the reader, it's like "well wtf do you want?" And I don't understand how anyone could say a particular race doesn't interest them, maybe physically you may have something, but in terms of personality, ppl are the same across the board. hell I don't know how to feel when I get the "I'm usually not into black guys but you're cute" or "you're nice looking for a black guy". Like are all black guys supposed to be unattractive or something? Well there is a difference between good looking and what you're attracted to. I can see someone who i would acknowledge as really good looking, but there not my type. Most tend to see muscle guys as gods, but its chunky guys that get my juices going. And there was a time i couldn't even consider sleeping with a white dude. Then one hot guy in a porn film completely flipped that around for me and my eyes were opened Then I Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted September 3, 2014 Share Posted September 3, 2014 Im looking for a slim, young masculine guy?! Though interpretations of all of those can vary some of the "masculine" dudes ive spoken to Some guys don't want to accept their not masculine and some guys live by the idea of masculinity as if they're not getting bum-rushed later I don't mind flamboyant men... I'm not talking CDs tho Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 Listing what you want should be easier than listing what you don't "Looking for a yellow sweater" vs. "Looking for a sweater that is not brown, orange, or with stripes"Bullshit, cuz some Men have a very short list of what they dont like ..juss like Game said .. some guys say "No fat No Fems" Thats very cut and dry and weeds out the shit you dont like. Thats more simple than goin into what you do like. And Lets be clear all ppl do not come off "igornant" on their profiles I'll see someone say "I prefer liteskin dudes" .. and Thats not offensive. Some actually do say what theyre looking for as oppsose to what they dont. What profiles are some of you looking at? I dont see too many offensive ones Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 Agree.. Most people don't say what race they don't want unless you message them first.. Then all bets are off the table I would message anyone I seen fit.. If he decided to answer, obviously he's interested. I have also broken a lot of hearts.. Mostly older guys not my goodies Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 Or maybe they not attracted to someone that's openly 'ignorant'? So you wanted someone that didn't want you?? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 I normally put in my profile that I'm looking for Black or Latino only.. If you have a problem with what I LIKE, I can set you up with a shrink... 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 I can get a tan and look Latino Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 So you wanted someone that didn't want you?? Why would I want someone that's openly ignorant? I normally put in my profile that I'm looking for Black or Latino only.. Should we be surprised? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
downeaznboi Posted September 4, 2014 Share Posted September 4, 2014 I see 'no asians' all the time. Its usually right after 'no fems.' Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 Why would I want someone that's openly ignorant? You're the one bothered by what someone else doesn't like.. Should we be surprised? I'm not ashamed.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vaquero Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 at the end of the day I am looking for good dick no matter what the race is oh and personality too.........I guess 2 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 And I've already explained why. Read a little, Good for you Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kidfresh832 Posted September 5, 2014 Share Posted September 5, 2014 at the end of the day I am looking for good dick no matter what the race is oh and personality too.........I guess You better preach that gospel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted September 6, 2014 Share Posted September 6, 2014 I normally put in my profile that I'm looking for Black or Latino only.. If you have a problem with what I LIKE, I can set you up with a shrink... :lmao: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted September 6, 2014 Share Posted September 6, 2014 I see 'no asians' all the time. Its usually right after 'no fems.' I never even see anyone speak on asians at all You all make it sound like asians are the most unwanted, undesirable guys on a broader scale Again I ask, what sites are you ppl on? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted September 6, 2014 Share Posted September 6, 2014 And I've already explained why. Read a little, Good for you Bu, you really are trippin this time around You come off very bitter , its surprising. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted September 6, 2014 Share Posted September 6, 2014 Bu, you really are trippin this time around You come off very bitter , its surprising. How? I just don't think it's cute no matter what race is labelled on a profile. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted September 6, 2014 Share Posted September 6, 2014 I see 'no asians' all the time. Its usually right after 'no fems.' Or "straight acting" - that term makes me kiii Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted September 6, 2014 Share Posted September 6, 2014 How? I just don't think it's cute no matter what race is labelled on a profile. But why do you consider that to be "ignorance" is my question? Ignorance would be to stereotype asians and say "I don't like dating asians becuz XYZ" .. they are juss letting you know, you're not their type so yours and their time won't be wasted. I mean, what do you want them to say? Eventually you're gonna hit that road block that they're not into asians once you start conversing, so why even hold off on speaking on preferences? It would be misleading Not to.. I wouldn't want to waste my time tryna get to know someone only to find out they're not attracted to black mean. Tell me upfront! What more could u ask for? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted September 6, 2014 Share Posted September 6, 2014 I never even see anyone speak on asians at all You all make it sound like asians are the most unwanted, undesirable guys on a broader scale Again I ask, what sites are you ppl on? I see it all the time over here . It's usually "No asians" or "No blacks" . I never see "no whites". I also see asian people but "mixed race" as well when they're not . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted September 6, 2014 Share Posted September 6, 2014 I see it all the time over here . It's usually "No asians" or "No blacks" . I never see "no whites". I also see asian people but "mixed race" as well when they're not .Well over here, We're a lot more open. I rarely see ppl say that stuff. I mean I have occasionally seen blacks say they are open to all and I've seen some say "I prefer white men" I've seen white boys say "black Only" ... I mean, it is what it is.. interracial couples are very common especially in todays gay world. Maybe you're put off by the wording,perhaps ? its all about delivery Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted September 6, 2014 Share Posted September 6, 2014 But why do you consider that to be "ignorance" is my question? Ignorance would be to stereotypes asians and say "I don't like date asians becuz XYZ" .. they are juss letting you know, you're not they're type so yours and their time won't be wasted. I mean, what do you want them to say? Eventually you're gonna hit that road block that they're not into asians once you start conversing, so why even hold off on speaking on preferences? It would be misleading Not to.. Ok maybe ignorant is the wrong word but I do find it demeaning. I spoke to someone that wasn't into Asians but they hadn't written it on their profile. We were talking for ages and it was a great conversation. When he found out I was Asian (how we couldn't tell from my pic I don't know) he was like "I'm not really into Asians but you're really cool" and we went for drinks. We wouldn't have been friends today if he had "no asians" on his profile. I guess we all have different experiences. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted September 6, 2014 Share Posted September 6, 2014 Well over here, We're a lot more open. I rarely see ppl say that stuff. I mean I have occasionally seen blacks say they are open to all and I've seen some say "I prefer white men" I've seen white boys say "black Only" ... I mean, it is what it is.. interracial couples are very common especially in todays gay world. Manchester is a cesspit for stereotypes and prejudice in the LGBT community. It's why I never go to the village. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted September 6, 2014 Share Posted September 6, 2014 Ok maybe ignorant is the wrong word but I do find it demeaning when someone expresses to the whole world just how unattractive they find certain races on the other. I spoke to someone that wasn't into Asians but they hadn't written it on their profile. We were talking for ages and it was a great conversation. When he found out I was Asian (how we couldn't tell from my pic I don't know) he was like "I'm not really into Asians but you're really cool" and we went for drinks. We wouldn't have been friends today if he had "no asians" on his profile. I guess we all have different experiences. I don't really do white dudes but one of my exes turned out to be mixed (black & white) and I wasn't aware until like a month of us making it official. I juss always assumed he was a lightskin black dude I was a lil caught off guard once I discovered it but I still was extremely attracted to him.. since then I've been tryna be a lil more open. It's an ongoing process. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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