dimpy Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 I don't like when people just assume Janet doesn't want kids. To me, she's always seemed like she would. There's always a possibility that she was never able to have them. I don't like to assume anything and I don't like when people ask her that question...seems to make her uncomfortable and me as well. But anywhore, I've gone back and forth about having kids...I don't know. I just don't think I'd be a good parent. Then again I'm way too young to even think about it right now. I do love having my nephew around though I just don't think having a kid just because you WANT one, or wanna see what they'd look like, etc is a good enough reason. People need to evaluate what would be best for the child and if they would be a good parent, etc. So as of now. No. No kids. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 gurl keep up he has never been in a relationship and has had no sex for years....which I can get no sex...Im not having sex, but I have been involved several times. I think it's a bit risky, being involved because someone gets to know you, you break up, and they get to tell the world what they know about u. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 gurl keep up he has never been in a relationship and has had no sex for years....which I can get no sex...Im not having sex, but I have been involved several times. I think it's a bit risky, being involved because someone gets to know you, you break up, and they get to tell the world what they know about u. Me aint Austin and nem Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 I don't like when people just assume Janet doesn't want kids. To me, she's always seemed like she would. There's always a possibility that she was never able to have them. I don't like to assume anything and I don't like when people ask her that question...seems to make her uncomfortable and me as well. But anywhore, I've gone back and forth about having kids...I don't know. I just don't think I'd be a good parent. Then again I'm way too young to even think about it right now. I do love having my nephew around though I just don't think having a kid just because you WANT one, or wanna see what they'd look like, etc is a good enough reason. People need to evaluate what would be best for the child and if they would be a good parent, etc. So as of now. No. No kids. I read what you said.....but I don't think it works in a logical sense, I think having life or giving birth to life is much like living life, it just sorta happens, a lot of shit you don't plan comes along and you deal with it. I mean how many folks are parents that probably weren't planning on being parents and it happen and they adjusted. My mom told me I was planned, my younger brother a surprise...I ask did dad know any of this shit you thinking because my dad has said he never wanted kids Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 Me aint Austin and nem masculine butch Dayz Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 masculine butch Dayz tinkerbell Bailey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 Do we need a little Oprah? I'm just sayin' Agreed. So more than likely, she won't I remember the Tyra interview where she asked her in '08 if some of her eggs were froze, she got very nervous so I doubt she did that. I don't know why wouldn't she...I mean it's like look if you decide to you have this option open for later, you never know what may happen, I never saw the SB coming and Janet playing 7400 but it did....and she is still a queen...OUR QUEEN and she handled herself like one too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 I will be married to the white man while Omari is my baby daddy! If u think ima give up ghetto ass coon dick then you out ya mind! Omari is not ghetto or a coon. Wait until I'm back in Atlanta so I can drag u all over 285. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 Omari is not ghetto or a coon. Wait until I'm back in Atlanta so I can drag u all over 285. okay no kids for you anger management... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 tinkerbell Bailey whatever I just want some kids Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Omari is not ghetto or a coon. Wait until I'm back in Atlanta so I can drag u all over 285. Omari is not yours Shawn ...calm down Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 I think you guys are right...two points...one I want a kid for wrong reasons....two my mother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 I don't know why wouldn't she...I mean it's like look if you decide to you have this option open for later, you never know what may happen, I never saw the SB coming and Janet playing 7400 but it did....and she is still a queen...OUR QUEEN and she handled herself like one too. You had me up until the SB talk Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 whatever I just want some kids talk to God about dat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Omari is not yours Shawn ...calm down How dare you try and ruin my fantasy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 I'm actually with you there. If I ever have kids, they will have meaningful names like I do. Not something entirely made up. well I read a book called "Freakonmics" and it was all about numbers and this professor that looked at stats and crunched the numbers to figure out weird facts, he said they looked at public records in Cali and found that if you had a resume identical to someone White but had a name like Shanquai, the White would be hired almost every time, the chapter was called "Whats in a Name?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 How dare you try and ruin my fantasy. I wouldn't I wonder what sum Black-Black-Latino babies would be like Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 talk to God about dat God said to grow up first Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 well I read a book called "Freakonmics" and it was all about numbers and this professor that looked at stats and crunched the numbers to figure out weird facts, he said they looked at public records in Cali and found that if you had a resume identical to someone White but had a name like Shanquai, the White would be hired almost every time, the chapter was called "Whats in a Name?" Corporate America looks for overall look. Not just qualifications. That want someone who looks good on paper, too. Including the name. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 How dare you try and ruin my fantasy. becuz its not a REALITY! We live in a cruel cruel world Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 You had me up until the SB talk It was a gamble I knew, but hey it's real talk ya'll know damn well shit woulda been different if we could pull a Cher and turn back time to late Feb 2004 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 God said to grow up first Then why we having this board discussion about what you want? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 25, 2011 Author Share Posted July 25, 2011 becuz its not a REALITY! We live in a cruel cruel world Like Cruel Summer Ace of Base? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 Like Cruel Summer Ace of Base? Bailey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted July 25, 2011 Share Posted July 25, 2011 It was a gamble I knew, but hey it's real talk ya'll know damn well shit woulda been different if we could pull a Cher and turn back time to late Feb 2004 True. But this is about you and your want/not want for kids Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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