Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted March 29, 2016 Share Posted March 29, 2016 Why are you glad I'm single? I removed the parts of that quote that were untrue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted March 29, 2016 Share Posted March 29, 2016 I removed the parts of that quote that were untrue oh sadly it's true Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted March 29, 2016 Author Share Posted March 29, 2016 I was dating a few guys before Christmas but it fizzled out into nothing. Now I'm single but not really looking.Still no love life huh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vibeology Posted March 29, 2016 Share Posted March 29, 2016 (edited) It seems as if ive gone off sex...kinda over it. Dunno if its due to other stuff going on with me but its been like that for a minute. Edited March 29, 2016 by vibeology Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted March 29, 2016 Share Posted March 29, 2016 (edited) too many guys coming for sex, and nothing else....so much so I decided to pull out sex addict ....guy is having too much sex I swear its a turn offcloset case...I rest my caseformer coke addict, now reformed is afraid to step outside the house unless its church Edited March 29, 2016 by Stealth Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted March 29, 2016 Share Posted March 29, 2016 (edited) Still no love life huh Not right now. I have issues and just don't seem to let anyone get close hence the fizzling out. Edited March 29, 2016 by Dammn Bu Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted March 29, 2016 Share Posted March 29, 2016 Not right now. I have issues and just don't seem to let anyone get close hence the fizzling out. so you're a flake too .....I meet a lot of u guys 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted March 30, 2016 Share Posted March 30, 2016 (edited) so you're a flake too .....I meet a lot of u guys Please elaborate . I'm not one of those any more that starts speaking and it's all great at the start but then I completely ignore them. I grew up from that. Edited March 30, 2016 by Dammn Bu 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted March 30, 2016 Share Posted March 30, 2016 (edited) Please elaborate . I'm not one of those any more that starts speaking and it's all great at the start but then I completely ignore them. I grew up from that.well i think it depends on how you met them...if u met someone and all it was was a hookup then flaky behavior is easy, now if we went out on an actual date and you just stopped texting at all thats a tad different but still kinda flaky. I met this jock, hot guy, but super closet case, just broke up with his gf, I hadnt heard from him, so i wrote it off as if I was the problem....he texts me Friday night to meet up, we meet and maybe 20 minutes into it he flips out like "i can't do this, i gotta go, its not you its me" I fully admit now and here, my problem is Im looking for something that matters in all the wrong places, and sex isnt as enjoyable to me anymore Edited March 30, 2016 by Stealth 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bu. Posted March 30, 2016 Share Posted March 30, 2016 well i think it depends on how you met them...if u met someone and all it was was a hookup then flaky behavior is easy, now if we went out on an actual date and you just stopped texting at all thats a tad different but still kinda flaky. I met this jock, hot guy, but super closet case, just broke up with his gf, I hadnt heard from him, so i wrote it off as if I was the problem....he texts me Friday night to meet up, we meet and maybe 20 minutes into it he flips out like "i can't do this, i gotta go, its not you its me" I fully admit now and here, my problem is Im looking for something that matters in all the wrong places, and sex isnt as enjoyable to me anymoreoh I get those Grindr meet and drop experience so well. I used to do it all the time when I was new to it. I've dated a lot in the last two years but one point, the moment it began to get serious I just pulled out and told them I'm not ready for a relationship or make some excuse up. I'm not 100% why but I do think growing up religious has something to do with it. I had the same issue when I first started having sex, if you remember. It's like I was conflicted and couldn't shake it off. However I met one guy and he sort of made all that go away to the point that it was quite serious. I really really liked him, like butterfly in my stomach like him. Then he just became distant until we broke up. I was gutted and now I'm just not keen because it's such a long process and I don't have the time for it. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted March 31, 2016 Share Posted March 31, 2016 This old ass thread. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Band08Geek Posted March 31, 2016 Share Posted March 31, 2016 (edited) I just finished college. It took me 12 years, yes I said 12 years to get my BA. I am proud of myself!My tech friend has advised me to learn statistical application to partner with my degree in finance, and I will most likely get a job in Silicon Valley making beaucoup bucks.I'm currently looking for a full time job that is not stressful and can pay the bills until I can learn statistical application. I am also going to learn how to code.Making that money will allow me to pay off my student loans and also pay for a MSF. Working in Silicon Valley for a start up means that I can work remotely when it comes time for me to start my MSF program.I need to also study for the GMAT so I can get into a grad program for Fall 2017.I need to pick a MSF program that will train me to take the CFA exams. Once I get my MSF and CFA certificates, I will pretty much be employable for LIFE!! Especially since I will know coding and statistical application fluently by then. (Is this all set and ready to go, NOPE. But I am working on making it happen. I know that it will be difficult to do everything I need to get done, but I am up for the challenge)It has taken me a long to time get my life on track and in the place I need it to be, but I have learned valuable lessons regarding people throughout the that time.I have never dated, but I am open to such things. However, I will not sacrifice my career goals for a person. If I was in a relationship with a person and that person was offered a really awesome promotion or new job, I would tell that person to go for it, and if we are meant to be we will be together. But REACH FOR YOUR GOALS!!But I just need to find a full time job first in order to make all of this happen!! UGH why is looking for a job SO HARD?!!! Edited March 31, 2016 by Band08Geek Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Band08Geek Posted March 31, 2016 Share Posted March 31, 2016 Of course.. I've been to Cali (hate it), Colorado (loved it), Alabama, Georgia, Massachusetts, Texas (too young to remember), Chicago, IL, Florida, Michigan, DC, Connecticut, Mississippi, New Orleans, LA., Missouri I've drove through most of the eastern states..What part of Cali did you visit? It's rare that I come across people who hate Cali. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted March 31, 2016 Share Posted March 31, 2016 What part of Cali did you visit? It's rare that I come across people who hate Cali. It will be 10 years ago this June.. I traveled with family so... Yeah Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dal Posted March 31, 2016 Share Posted March 31, 2016 I just finished college. It took me 12 years, yes I said 12 years to get my BA. I am proud of myself!My tech friend has advised me to learn statistical application to partner with my degree in finance, and I will most likely get a job in Silicon Valley making beaucoup bucks.I'm currently looking for a full time job that is not stressful and can pay the bills until I can learn statistical application. I am also going to learn how to code.Making that money will allow me to pay off my student loans and also pay for a MSF. Working in Silicon Valley for a start up means that I can work remotely when it comes time for me to start my MSF program.I need to also study for the GMAT so I can get into a grad program for Fall 2017.I need to pick a MSF program that will train me to take the CFA exams. Once I get my MSF and CFA certificates, I will pretty much be employable for LIFE!! Especially since I will know coding and statistical application fluently by then. (Is this all set and ready to go, NOPE. But I am working on making it happen. I know that it will be difficult to do everything I need to get done, but I am up for the challenge)It has taken me a long to time get my life on track and in the place I need it to be, but I have learned valuable lessons regarding people throughout the that time.I have never dated, but I am open to such things. However, I will not sacrifice my career goals for a person. If I was in a relationship with a person and that person was offered a really awesome promotion or new job, I would tell that person to go for it, and if we are meant to be we will be together. But REACH FOR YOUR GOALS!!But I just need to find a full time job first in order to make all of this happen!! UGH why is looking for a job SO HARD?!!!what part of the Bay Area u from? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dal Posted March 31, 2016 Share Posted March 31, 2016 It will be 10 years ago this June.. I traveled with family so... Yeah did you go to Fresno with your family or something..?Who hates Cali? And why?? Lol 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Band08Geek Posted March 31, 2016 Share Posted March 31, 2016 what part of the Bay Area u from?I'm not from the Bay. I did live in Berkeley for a summer in '06. I'm from the greater LA area. Been here practically my entire life. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted March 31, 2016 Share Posted March 31, 2016 did you go to Fresno with your family or something..?Who hates Cali? And why?? LolLA & San Diego. Hate was too aggressive of a word... It's just not at the top of my list Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dal Posted March 31, 2016 Share Posted March 31, 2016 LA & San Diego. Hate was too aggressive of a word... It's just not at the top of my listgotcha.. Was the trip for fun or just visiting family or something? What was so bad about Cali? Just curious to know.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted March 31, 2016 Share Posted March 31, 2016 gotcha.. Was the trip for fun or just visiting family or something? What was so bad about Cali? Just curious to know..My uncle lives out there. It was a graduation present It wasn't bad.. The vibe out there just rubbed me wrong. I love Chicago and the vibe I got from that city. Same with Pittsburgh 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LyricalLesson Posted March 31, 2016 Share Posted March 31, 2016 Lol, my comment in Dal's "fuck on the first date" thread probably was a better fit for THIS thread 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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