Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 You caught your best friend's boyfriend cheating on him/her. Doesn't matter how Would you tell your best friend what you seen or would you him/her find out for his or herself? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 Of course I would tell... Unless they were cheating with me 3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vaquero Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 do you wanna have a Janet and Tina situation on your hands? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 do you wanna have a Janet and Tina situation on your hands?thats where this is going Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EphraimAdamz Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 Of course I would tell... Unless they were cheating with me do you wanna have a Janet and Tina situation on your hands? thats where this is going :lmao: :lmao: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted June 30, 2014 Author Share Posted June 30, 2014 do you wanna have a Janet and Tina situation on your hands? We know what Tina woulda done but I'm more interested in y'all Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 Yes. You're not a friend if you don't. And Janet was WRONG as fuck for that, all day 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarrylf Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 Yup, I'd want the same done to me, and if you're good enough friends you should take my word for it, and not some how get pissed at me. I do understand the Janet approach to of telling the friends cheating partner to come clean, that they're caught. But then as a friend you still look bad because you knew and didn't say anything, but at least you tried something tho. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Utopia Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 Yes. I hate lies (unless im the one telling them) and i love awkward situations. I think that everybody should know the truth and if your BF finds out about the cheating and then finds out that you knew it's even worse. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted June 30, 2014 Share Posted June 30, 2014 Absolutely. I'd kick their ass first then tell my friend so they can kick their ass, too. I hate this type of shit and I'm too protective of my friends to let that go down with me knowing about it. I also should that I'd also hope to have some evidence with me like a picture or something so my friend won't be angry with me and think I'm the one lying when the cheater tries to defend himself/herself. That tends to happen sometimes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trackboy Posted July 1, 2014 Share Posted July 1, 2014 I don't feel as though you are obligated to do so; but I would because FUCK THAT. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarrylf Posted July 1, 2014 Share Posted July 1, 2014 Yea I feel like the obligation lies with how close you are to that person, and the relationship you have. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted July 1, 2014 Share Posted July 1, 2014 I'd tell and since i'm sneaky as fuck i'd help him/her catch them in the act. They wouldn't need a private investigator cause i'm good enough to get the job done. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jarrylf Posted July 1, 2014 Share Posted July 1, 2014 I'd tell and since i'm sneaky as fuck i'd help him/her catch them in the act. They wouldn't need a private investigator cause i'm good enough to get the job done. I LIKE THAT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted July 1, 2014 Share Posted July 1, 2014 I LIKE THAT i've done something like this before. Nobody's gonna play me or my bestie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted July 1, 2014 Share Posted July 1, 2014 I'd tell......real friends stay around a lot longer than lovers do anyway Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laveaux Posted July 1, 2014 Share Posted July 1, 2014 I wouldn't tell. She should already know if her man is cheating or not. Im not here for dumb hoes. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted July 1, 2014 Share Posted July 1, 2014 I wouldn't tell. She should already know if her man is cheating or not. Im not here for dumb hoes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Laveaux Posted July 1, 2014 Share Posted July 1, 2014 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
T.C Posted July 1, 2014 Share Posted July 1, 2014 Yes I sure would Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RedSimba Posted July 1, 2014 Share Posted July 1, 2014 Of course I would Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted July 1, 2014 Author Share Posted July 1, 2014 I have a feeling this is one of those "it's gotta happen to you" type of scenarios.. Like unexpected pregnancies, cancer, or pulling the plug on a comatose loved one I don't think some of you all would pull the plug on your friend's relationship.. Possibly hurting your friendship in the end. I respect a lot of people's opinion on here but This society is full of moral contradictions Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trackboy Posted July 2, 2014 Share Posted July 2, 2014 I have a feeling this is one of those "it's gotta happen to you" type of scenarios.. Like unexpected pregnancies, cancer, or pulling the plug on a comatose loved one I don't think some of you all would pull the plug on your friend's relationship.. Possibly hurting your friendship in the end. I respect a lot of people's opinion on here but This society is full of moral contradictions Okay for this insightful ass post. I don't think such a scenario is as serious as those you mentioned above. I'd tell my friend but I wouldn't be like you need to dump him/her. I'd be like just so you know and whatever happens after that is between them. If that hurts our friendship then friends come and friends may go as Janet said. 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rock & Roll Hall of Game Posted July 2, 2014 Author Share Posted July 2, 2014 Okay for this insightful ass post. I don't think such a scenario is as serious as those you mentioned above. I'd tell my friend but I wouldn't be like you need to dump him/her. I'd be like just so you know and whatever happens after that is between them. If that hurts our friendship then friends come and friends may go as Janet said. don't try to read me I may have added dramatics But this is all hypothetical. I just want people to take it serious and actually think about it.. I respect your opinion Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted July 2, 2014 Share Posted July 2, 2014 Given the fact that I have been on both sides of this scenario, I can honestly say that I would tell the truth regardless. No-one needs to be kept in the dark about something like this. Not everyone can catch on for themselves especially when they're deeply in love. Love can make you ignore and explain away all kinds of behaviors from your partner because of this image you have of them in your head. It hurts like no other to hear it, but people deserve to love someone who truly loves them back. Not be deceived like this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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