Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 For the last few weeks I been getting work done on my car at this shop.... The guy that works on my car seems suspect... He flirts with me HARD and actually played beyonce in the shop his co worker told him to turn that shit off since he always playing her music... Hes not fem... at all he texts me too asking when we gonna go out and get a drink its a lil crazy I told my boyfriend about it... naturally he doesn't like it... "you just come here for me its nothing wrong with your car" one of the things he said to me... When we first met I didn't flirt with him at all I did start to flirt back though... Hes really attractive and kinda aggressive... the eye contact is crazy... hes about 6'2 brown skin kinda resembles a darker skin version of method man.... A friend went to the shop being a nosey mess and told me that I should stay away from him because he might get me in trouble. Maybe I can use him...to get my car fixed for cheap... lol not sure if we should stop texting or not... should I stop talking and going there or continue to use him...? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 You shouldn't use people I think that's common sense Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 5, 2011 Author Share Posted November 5, 2011 You shouldn't use people I think that's common sense His prices to fix things are good everyone gets "used" in one form or another not like hes fixing shit for free. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 His prices to fix things are good everyone gets "used" in one form or another not like hes fixing shit for free. You shouldn't lead people on either ... anyway it sounds like you're looking for an excuse to keep seeing him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatOtherFan Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Stop talking to him because he's gonna get you in trouble. lol Either you might have a "weak moment" or he might intentionally cause major tension between you and your boyfriend just so that he can have you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 5, 2011 Author Share Posted November 5, 2011 You shouldn't lead people on either ... anyway it sounds like you're looking for an excuse to keep seeing him Why not? I like to lead people on sometimes...might be bad but atleast I'm honest about it.. my boyfriend knows I like to tell people "NO" anyway... Maybe... I wouldn't take it any further than flirting I would never cheat on my hubby I just like the little game sometimes. My friend thinks judging by his look and mannerisms I might really be tempted but I have self control... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 5, 2011 Author Share Posted November 5, 2011 Stop talking to him because he's gonna get you in trouble. lol Either you might have a "weak moment" or he might intentionally cause major tension between you and your boyfriend just so that he can have you. sigh.... its just so funny to play that game... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Why not? I like to lead people on sometimes...might be bad but atleast I'm honest about it.. my boyfriend knows I like to tell people "NO" anyway... Maybe... I wouldn't take it any further than flirting I would never cheat on my hubby I just like the little game sometimes. My friend thinks judging by his look and mannerisms I might really be tempted but I have self control... Ok... so why make this thread? Sounds like your mind is made up to keep flirting... what's giving you pause Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 5, 2011 Author Share Posted November 5, 2011 Ok... so why make this thread? Sounds like your mind is made up to keep flirting... what's giving you pause Oh because I felt like discussing it... I don' believe my mind is made up... I kinda wanna see how far he going to take it ... I'm curious as to why he felt so comfortable flirting... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Oh because I felt like discussing it... I don' believe my mind is made up... I kinda wanna see how far he going to take it ... I'm curious as to why he felt so comfortable flirting... isn't that obvious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 5, 2011 Author Share Posted November 5, 2011 isn't that obvious nope... If u trying to be shady not falling for it... I didn't realize who this was... until I looked at ur name history... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 nope... If u trying to be shady not falling for it... I didn't realize who this was... until I looked at ur name history... how so I'm not Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 This would be more fun if you were single. Its unacceptable since your not. The forbidden fruit is always satisfying... but you pay for the shit later on. Is possibly losing your man WORTH the risk is the question. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janet.1814 Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 stop the flirting....it doesnt sound like he's given you a discount so far, so u should just keep it pushing & pay full price elsewhere so ur bf wont be uncomfortable. it sounds like ur also interested in this guy too... i dont think anything good can come from this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Aquaria Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 stop the flirting....i doesnt sound like he's given you a discount so far, so u should just keep it pushing & pay full price elsewhere so ur bf wont be uncomfortable. it sounds like ur also interested in this guy too... i dont think anything good can come from this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selz Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 Using people's not really on and if you got a bf already it's not fair to lead this guy on. It's that black-and-white to me I'm afraid. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
aed05 Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 This would be more fun if you were single. Its unacceptable since your not. The forbidden fruit is always satisfying... but you pay for the shit later on. Is possibly losing your man WORTH the risk is the question. No more needs to be said. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 And lastly you all are taking the "using" shit too far. Its nothing wrong with winking and smiling at a person to get a discount. If they're that gullible to knock off a few bucks off of someone bill....thats the mechanics stupidity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Selz Posted November 5, 2011 Share Posted November 5, 2011 And lastly you all are taking the "using" shit too far. Its nothing wrong with winking and smiling at a person to get a discount. If they're that gullible to knock off a few bucks off of someone bill....thats the mechanics stupidity. Whatever helps you sleep at night Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 [quote name=Selita Jo ' timestamp='1320536181' post='272691] Whatever helps you sleep at night Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 6, 2011 Author Share Posted November 6, 2011 This would be more fun if you were single. Its unacceptable since your not. The forbidden fruit is always satisfying... but you pay for the shit later on. Is possibly losing your man WORTH the risk is the question. Ummm... so what I can never flirt again because I'm attached? :& That sounds boring to me. I like to tease people sometimes because I find it funny... he knew this when he first met me.... lol I would never cheat... Sure the guy is tempting but I know my limits Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--- Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 Ummm... so what I can never flirt again because I'm attached? :& That sounds boring to me. I like to tease people sometimes because I find it funny... he knew this when he first met me.... lol I would never cheat... Sure the guy is tempting but I know my limits u may flirt, but ur bf may not enjoy it and may have resentment towards u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 Ummm... so what I can never flirt again because I'm attached? :& That sounds boring to me. I like to tease people sometimes because I find it funny... he knew this when he first met me.... lol I would never cheat... Sure the guy is tempting but I know my limits Oh...well that changes everything. I say get that discount! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted November 6, 2011 Author Share Posted November 6, 2011 u may flirt, but ur bf may not enjoy it and may have resentment towards u This could be true... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
--- Posted November 6, 2011 Share Posted November 6, 2011 This could be true... everything u do affects a relationship if ur bf is not ok with ur flirting with others (and he finds out), expect problems... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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