Dungeon Dragon Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 I know there is obviously no definate age to being with someone but do you think there is a certain age which you should at least have someone in your life ? I hate when people ask and I say no and they ask why not ..... sometimes I feel embarressed lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Reyna ♔ Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 I actually don't put a timer on single life. Better to be old and happy than young and unhappy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 I know there is obviously no definate age to being with someone but do you think there is a certain age which you should at least have someone in your life ? I hate when people ask and I say no and they ask why not ..... sometimes I feel embarressed lol ABSOLUTELY FUCKIN NOT! Im so tired of society conditioning ppls brains into thinking "happiness" means having someone. BULLSHIT. Thats the primary reason why folks are staying in unheathly relationships as it is because being single makes you inadequate to someone who's involved. RIDICULOUS. See how twisted and unfortunate that all is? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 ABSOLUTELY FUCKIN NOT! Im so tired of society conditioning ppls brains into thinking "happiness" means having someone. BULLSHIT. Thats the primary reason why folks are staying in unheathly relationships as it is because being single makes you inadequate to someone who's involved. RIDICULOUS. See how twisted and unfortunate that all is? Same thing with women and babies.. They act like every single women should have kids and they need to do it before the age of 30.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 I know there is obviously no definate age to being with someone but do you think there is a certain age which you should at least have someone in your life ? I hate when people ask and I say no and they ask why not ..... sometimes I feel embarressed lol at least you gave some background to why you asked because I was prepared to say aint none, BUT I will say from my own experience a single male with no kids in his 30's raises flags period the older you get the more flags raised. Not that I believe anyone should fit this or that mold, that's just how life is women go thru it too at a certain age if a woman is successful but 30+ and not married no kids they believe she a fridged bitch or a lesbian. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted August 30, 2011 Share Posted August 30, 2011 Same thing with women and babies.. They act like every single women should have kids and they need to do it before the age of 30.. by 30 things are changing tho the media reports on it more too how more women are opting to have children later in life so they can have careers cause if you think about it at 30 you not even half way into a career so to stop and have babies? Kinda don't work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 Same thing with women and babies.. They act like every single women should have kids and they need to do it before the age of 30.. Because ppl still live in the traditional/old skool bubble which is so sickening to me. This is 2011! Shit aint picture perfect and it never will be. Ppl need to get over it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 ABSOLUTELY FUCKIN NOT! Im so tired of society conditioning ppls brains into thinking "happiness" means having someone. BULLSHIT. Thats the primary reason why folks are staying in unheathly relationships as it is because being single makes you inadequate to someone who's involved. RIDICULOUS. See how twisted and unfortunate that all is? I agree completely it's like Oprah said on her last show, no one completes you. I get it now, you have to be content and happy within yourself, doesn't mean you can't have someone in your life but if you are not happy because you "need" a man you need more than that. I'm celibate now Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 Because ppl still live in the traditional/old skool bubble whcih is so sickening to me. This is 2011! Shit aint picture perfect and it never will be. Ppl need to get over it. pretty much Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 I agree completely it's like Oprah said on her last show, no one completes you. I get it now, you have to be content and happy within yourself, doesn't mean you can't have someone in your life but if you are not happy because you "need" a man you need more than that. I'm celibate now thank u Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 thank u actually what I don't get is why this so-called traditional norms keep being applied to people today when we know folks are more self absorbed than ever, I mean today it's probably the hardest time ever to be in a monogamous relationship, we got jump off at da ready, the internet selling you every form of sex imaginable and unimaginable, it's probably easier today than ever to be a ho we got congressman taking ass pics as if this right here is my best angle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Escapade Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 Ppl always get on my case cause I'm 17 w/o a boyfriend. WTF do I NEED a boy friend for!? The girls at my school believe you always need a man to make you happy so if you don't have one then they assume you're a lesbian. Smh Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 Ppl always get on my case cause I'm 17 w/o a boyfriend. WTF do I NEED a boy friend for!? The girls at my school believe you always need a man to make you happy so if you don't have one then they assume you're a lesbian. Smh that's crazy as hell so you supposed to be a jump off cause they are? ewww find you a hot gay male friend keep em guessing that's what i say Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kim Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 She gives me hope: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 She gives me hope: people swear that movie was great....never saw it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Escapade Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 that's crazy as hell so you supposed to be a jump off cause they are? ewww find you a hot gay male friend keep em guessing that's what i say I just don't pay them any mind cause after this year I won't see those superficial, ghetto ass, loud, nosy, stanky skinned bitches ever again. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 ABSOLUTELY FUCKIN NOT! Im so tired of society conditioning ppls brains into thinking "happiness" means having someone. BULLSHIT. Thats the primary reason why folks are staying in unheathly relationships as it is because being single makes you inadequate to someone who's involved. RIDICULOUS. See how twisted and unfortunate that all is? Exactly! You know how many damn friends I have in relationships and they're always fighting, arguing, cussing, and someone's getting kicked out. Hell I hear and see the shit all the time. I've been told about 75 times not to get married I've had friends say "Yeah I love him/her but I don't want it" or they feel like they're trapped cause of bills, kids, or something is in both their names. No thanks Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hotboy06 Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 I enjoy single life..but it's getting old..but then I hear about other people's relationships and I think it's great to be single.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EphraimAdamz Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 actually what I don't get is why this so-called traditional norms keep being applied to people today when we know folks are more self absorbed than ever, I mean today it's probably the hardest time ever to be in a monogamous relationship, we got jump off at da ready, the internet selling you every form of sex imaginable and unimaginable, it's probably easier today than ever to be a ho we got congressman taking ass pics as if this right here is my best angle :lmao: :lmao: I can't take you ANYWHERE without you acting a fool Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dungeon Dragon Posted August 31, 2011 Author Share Posted August 31, 2011 I enjoy single life..but it's getting old..but then I hear about other people's relationships and I think it's great to be single.. Yup yup agreed Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
downeaznboi Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 the grass is always greener on the other side i'm a free agent. its fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angela Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 There isn't one. It's odd, but I am actually REALLY happy when I'm single Some people are just bound by society standards and have a hard time looking outside that scope. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 the grass is always greener on the other side i'm a free agent. its fun. yea but I like a steady mate, you know reliable ass for this dick, I hate outsourcing its really fucked thangs up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angela Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 Same thing with women and babies.. They act like every single women should have kids and they need to do it before the age of 30.. Sooo true and it's sad. I know some women who probably should have never had babies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shawn1814 Posted August 31, 2011 Share Posted August 31, 2011 Exactly! You know how many damn friends I have in relationships and they're always fighting, arguing, cussing, and someone's getting kicked out. Hell I hear and see the shit all the time. I've been told about 75 times not to get married I've had friends say "Yeah I love him/her but I don't want it" or they feel like they're trapped cause of bills, kids, or something is in both their names. No thanks I don't think I know anyone that's in a happy relationship.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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