Bailey Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 I know a guy I just ran into and he has Always liked me but he is poz and I just got out of a bad thing with a bad person so I'm kinda lonely _ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kidfresh832 Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 I know a guy I just ran into and he has Always liked me but he is poz and I just got out of a bad thing with a bad person so I'm kinda lonely _ Me personally no. Even though you can reduce the risk and all by having safe sex all the time there is just no way i would want to get involved with something like that. In my opinion it is just an extra issue right off the bat you have to deal with. Relationships are hard enough without adding the scare of a life altering disease. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
art Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 Hell no. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ThatOtherFan Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 I know a guy I just ran into and he has Always liked me but he is poz and I just got out of a bad thing with a bad person so I'm kinda lonely _ I wouldn't rush into anything out of loneliness, but as for the situation itself. I can't say for certain, but I think I would... I'm the relationship type so it wouldn't be a causal thing. I'm open as long as we take the necessary precautions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr. Wonder Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 Nope. Here today. Gone tomorrow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CK1Czar Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 Yes and I have. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greg/Dean Posted January 6, 2011 Share Posted January 6, 2011 You are starting out on the wrong foot because of Your status, not his. You should date because you want to not because you feel you need to. If you want to do it, do. Just make sue you take responsibility for the outcome. Don't blame anything on the HIV. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted January 6, 2011 Author Share Posted January 6, 2011 I never had sex with the guybut I know he will treat me well unlike my ex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greg/Dean Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 I never had sex with the guybut I know he will treat me well unlike my ex Ther's more I want to say on this topic but I gotta getbready for work. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Baby Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 Chances are you already slept with somebody who didn't know they had it or didn't tell you they did...I would if I really liked them but like Dean said, your mind is in the wrong place. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vaquero Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 I would, to me they are just another person. but of course they would have to tell me that they are poz, but it wont ruin it for me unless he is a total douche bag but that applies to all but like some have said,your mind is in the wrong place. if this guy likes you and you make him out to be the rebound guy, you can really hurt him Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
downeaznboi Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 don't think i could Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SianGracious Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 Dnt do it honey, it sounds like your just lonely rite now and jumping on the first guy you see. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
switchblade330 Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 i would date someone who is poz. just let let me kno up front & we can take the necessary precautions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DJ Y2K Malone™ Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 I never had sex with the guybut I know he will treat me well unlike my ex I say go for it plus sex isn't on your mind even if it dont work out sometimes you need that attention from someone that you wasn't getting from your ex Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s.omner Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 Me personally no. Even though you can reduce the risk and all by having safe sex all the time there is just no way i would want to get involved with something like that. In my opinion it is just an extra issue right off the bat you have to deal with. Relationships are hard enough without adding the scare of a life altering disease. I have to agree. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angela Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 You don't need to be dating anybody until you get over your ex. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrietta. Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 Date...sure. Relationship...sadly I wouldn't. You don't need to be dating anybody until you get over your ex. This was gonna be my initial post Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jodienda76 Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 It's funny that I get on this site today and read this, because today, I got into a very ugly confrontation with a judgemental, poor excuse for a nurse about an HIV positive patient that's probably gonna cost me my job. I'm sure I'm going to be called into the administrators office tomorrow. I'll update you guys tomorrow. I can't even type about this without crying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted January 7, 2011 Author Share Posted January 7, 2011 I was advised to see other people to move on Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jodienda76 Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 I was advised to see other people to move on You've got a great advisor. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted January 7, 2011 Author Share Posted January 7, 2011 It's funny that I get on this site today and read this, because today, I got into a very ugly confrontation with a judgemental, poor excuse for a nurse about an HIV positive patient that's probably gonna cost me my job. I'm sure I'm going to be called into the administrators office tomorrow. I'll update you guys tomorrow. I can't even type about this without crying. Well damn what had happen Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrietta. Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 It's funny that I get on this site today and read this, because today, I got into a very ugly confrontation with a judgemental, poor excuse for a nurse about an HIV positive patient that's probably gonna cost me my job. I'm sure I'm going to be called into the administrators office tomorrow. I'll update you guys tomorrow. I can't even type about this without crying. I hope everything works out. I was advised to see other people to move on <insert Roc's gurl please video> You're nowhere near ready to hookup, date or be in a relationship with someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted January 7, 2011 Author Share Posted January 7, 2011 I hope everything works out. <insert Roc's gurl please video> You're nowhere near ready to hookup, date or be in a relationship with someone. Well fine I don't really want to deal with HIV Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jodienda76 Posted January 7, 2011 Share Posted January 7, 2011 Well damn what had happen Ugh...I work with a nurse who happens to be in the wrong field. She is super religious, always talks shit on the patients. EXTREMELY high strung in a stupid way, and very judgmental. We got a new long term care admission today. He is HIV positive. She not only thinks he's a pain in the ass, but assumes he's gay, and gowns up from head to toe. Now, I go in the room to meet him. He is super duper sweet. He told me he loves cherry italian water ice, which we have. Told me his life story, He was actually raped when he was 30. He was so embarrassed to admit this. Anywho, I fell in love with him. He is now my favorite patient. I leave the room, and this stupid cunt nurse, tells me not to baby him, by listening to his "sob stories" and providing him with italian water ice. Because then he's gonna "think he's at the Hilton." She also tells me that I must be completey nuts to go in the room without being gowned up. She also got all the med techs wired up and scared. Now I can't tell them not to gown up because it's their right. But as you know, HIV isn't an airbourne disease. So I don't get why she had to get everybody all panicked with her high strung stupidity. I immediately blew up at her. I told her that I went to a legit Nursing school and am very educated on HIV and AIDS, and I did not need her to lecture me. I also told her that she needed to stop acting like a cunt towards this man because he sensed her prejudice the moment she walked into the room. I told her she might have C-DIFF or tuberculosis, and that would scare me way more than HIV or AIDS because she could give it to me or any patient, or staff on a daily basis with her air-headed, closed minded, idiot breath every time she spoke. She of course with a higher than thou attitude opened her mouth and I threatened to knock her fucking teeth out if she ever came at me with that bullshit again. Im telling you this is why I fucking hate nursing. Soooo many idiots are in this field ONLY and PURELY for the money. It's really really scary. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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