henrietta. Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 hey boo boo long time no talk u doing ok? I'm doing quite well...just getting tired of waiting for my Janet ticket to come in the mail How about you...and your son? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 ewwwww! That shit is nasty and you know that person been fuckin' other people without protection if they don't even wanna get tested :& actually my ex forced me to always wear them always, he was very responsible in that regard, and he was not having sex outside me without protection he had a drawer with 67 condoms, I counted them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 his issue was he was afraid to go as a lot of gay men are Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted March 16, 2011 Author Share Posted March 16, 2011 I'm doing quite well...just getting tired of waiting for my Janet ticket to come in the mail How about you...and your son? lol my son is fine thanks for asking u lil im going to see her on 3/29 in ATL with hotboy and Blatin Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrietta. Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 lol my son is fine thanks for asking u lil im going to see her on 3/29 in ATL with hotboy and Blatin That will be here in no time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 my thing is this until you know how yo man get down and where he be and who he is with on a reg, you use em and when you both get tested that's a sign of responsibility, for tops its a bit safer, for them bottoms not so much but I got tested several times within our relationship all good Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted March 16, 2011 Author Share Posted March 16, 2011 That will be here in no time yes!!! and imma see prince on the 24 of march Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrietta. Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 yes!!! and imma see prince on the 24 of march Two legends back to back I debating on if I should go see the Zac Brown Band (country) next month...I most likely will Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 I know everyone wanna scream this TRUST TRUST TRUST shit for the one you love but this is a whole another DAY and AGE. Alot of ppl have contracted and DIED because of "trust". I say HELL NAH you shouldn't stop using protection because you never know what a muthafuka is doing and your life should not be at risk because of it. END OF STORY Women who wanna get pregnant has to take that risk, unfortunately. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JoeJoe Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 actually my ex forced me to always wear them always, he was very responsible in that regard, and he was not having sex outside me without protection he had a drawer with 67 condoms, I counted them well that right there is bad enough...he was a cheater and you knew it and still stayed with him? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bzebabe Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 hey gurl are we cool? you don't talk to me anymore what???? of course we are cool...nothing but love from me to you honey Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bzebabe Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 I know everyone wanna scream this TRUST TRUST TRUST shit for the one you love but this is a whole another DAY and AGE. Alot of ppl have contracted and DIED because of "trust". I say HELL NAH you shouldn't stop using protection because you never know what a muthafuka is doing and your life should not be at risk because of it. END OF STORY Women who wanna get pregnant has to take that risk, unfortunately. honey cheating is not new epidemic...grandma and grandpa been had jumpoffs honey...fucking them raw and all...you can say fuck trust, but know that mentality is not one that will allow you to keep a relationship for too long...all relationships are a risk...if you have been with someone for a long time and you are still in limbo as far as you trusting them goes, end the damn relationship and find a new piece of ass...if you make a commitment of marriage and you still feel the need to fuck with condom, get a fuckin divorce...could the other person be cheating, hell fuckin yes, but to think that a long term relationship/marriage can survive lack of trust is not rational...condom or no condom, if I don't trust your ass then you need to indroduce your dick to you hand and have fun cuz it ain't gonna be no fuckin going on up in here Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 well that right there is bad enough...he was a cheater and you knew it and still stayed with him? honey Bzebabe even told me when he went to Miami and was in South Beach I was at work, on the real I would rather a muthafucka be honest with me and let me know what's up then lie, I do not believe he was faithful, he traveled alot for his job he was in a big city every other week or so for a week, and that's not taking into account his vacations, that muthafucka loved to travel he wanted me to go too to be fair but I had to work I did not have vacation time. Was he a cheater? Probably was he safe? You better damn well believe it, Im a top and I have had my share let's say, and I can tell how a bottom rolls when we first go at it, for example I had a hookup with a dude that was like I could wear one or not, I was like Im wearing one probably need two. My ex, he and I would be in the heat of the moment and Im thinking im about to slap this phat dick in there, and it's like he wake up from a dream "YOU NEED TO PUT A CONDOM ON NOW" ...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
s.omner Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 With my ex-boyfriend of 4 years, we haven't used protection when we were together. We trusted each other, so no reason to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 honey cheating is not new epidemic...grandma and grandpa been had jumpoffs honey...fucking them raw and all...you can say fuck trust, but know that mentality is not one that will allow you to keep a relationship for too long...all relationships are a risk...if you have been with someone for a long time and you are still in limbo as far as you trusting them goes, end the damn relationship and find a new piece of ass...if you make a commitment of marriage and you still feel the need to fuck with condom, get a fuckin divorce...could the other person be cheating, hell fuckin yes, but to think that a long term relationship/marriage can survive lack of trust is not rational...condom or no condom, if I don't trust your ass then you need to indroduce your dick to you hand and have fun cuz it ain't gonna be no fuckin going on up in here Maybe thats my problem I TRUST NO ONE. And I will remain that way. NO GLOVE NO LOVE..I dont give a fuck. I love my life too much to risk it over trust or any damn thing. Ya'll do ya'll and trust niggas but I'mma do me and keep it safe at ALL times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 honey cheating is not new epidemic...grandma and grandpa been had jumpoffs honey...fucking them raw and all...you can say fuck trust, but know that mentality is not one that will allow you to keep a relationship for too long...all relationships are a risk...if you have been with someone for a long time and you are still in limbo as far as you trusting them goes, end the damn relationship and find a new piece of ass...if you make a commitment of marriage and you still feel the need to fuck with condom, get a fuckin divorce...could the other person be cheating, hell fuckin yes, but to think that a long term relationship/marriage can survive lack of trust is not rational...condom or no condom, if I don't trust your ass then you need to indroduce your dick to you hand and have fun cuz it ain't gonna be no fuckin going on up in here ^^ this sadly but truly so and that was my issue with my ex ultimately neither of us had trust, I thought he started paying my cell phone bill outta nowhere trying to help me save for trips and shit, I was like stop Im a man let me handle my shit, did not know he had gotten onto my comp and started going thru my cell phone bill, told my mom and she was like duh? I thought you were smarter than this I coulda told you that, I was like but if I call the phone company or cable company right now and I say I want to pay Bzababe or Paul's bill at such and such an adress or number you think they aint taking my payment Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 Maybe thats my problem I TRUST NO ONE. And I will remain that way. NO GLOVE NO LOVE..I dont give a fuck. I love my life too much to risk it over trust or any damn thing. Ya'll do ya'll and trust niggas but I'mma do me and keep it safe at ALL times. wait so that NEVER changes? No matter the guy? say Ya'll been together 2 years live together share shit and he real with you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bailey Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 honey cheating is not new epidemic...grandma and grandpa been had jumpoffs honey...fucking them raw and all...you can say fuck trust, but know that mentality is not one that will allow you to keep a relationship for too long...all relationships are a risk...if you have been with someone for a long time and you are still in limbo as far as you trusting them goes, end the damn relationship and find a new piece of ass...if you make a commitment of marriage and you still feel the need to fuck with condom, get a fuckin divorce...could the other person be cheating, hell fuckin yes, but to think that a long term relationship/marriage can survive lack of trust is not rational...condom or no condom, if I don't trust your ass then you need to indroduce your dick to you hand and have fun cuz it ain't gonna be no fuckin going on up in here I get it point is at some point in a committed relationship which is what this thread is about and not jumpoffs and tricks and hoes you dont knows , at SOME point if you bothered to the degree you still wearing rubbers 10 years married you shoulda been divorced ya'll got bigger issues. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Xtraordinary Xternal Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 trust your partner enough to NOT use any protection or do you still use protection? just wondering Its a bit different for gay dudes... Me personally I will always strap up and if my boyfriend had an issue with it I would break up with him without hesitation. I don't play with my life not to say he would cheat or anything but better safe than sorry. On the flip side I would like to marry him but that still doesn't mean shit to me condoms are a must. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
vaquero Posted March 16, 2011 Share Posted March 16, 2011 I need the condome plus I like doing the lil trick that I do with them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
janetDAYZ Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 wait so that NEVER changes? No matter the guy? say Ya'll been together 2 years live together share shit and he real with you? And when EXACTLY do you know when they are "real"? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XYZ Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 If u having doubts, and need to ask a question like this.... Wrap it up.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted March 17, 2011 Author Share Posted March 17, 2011 Its a bit different for gay dudes... Me personally I will always strap up and if my boyfriend had an issue with it I would break up with him without hesitation. I don't play with my life not to say he would cheat or anything but better safe than sorry. On the flip side I would like to marry him but that still doesn't mean shit to me condoms are a must. see u understood what i was trying to get to that's what i was wondering. i know the whole cheating thing is possible for straight and gay. just bcuss u r married it dont mean one of u wont cheat so i just think with straight couples once u r serious or married protection goes out the window unless not wating to get pregnant and used condoms for prevention. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lexus97 Posted March 17, 2011 Author Share Posted March 17, 2011 If u having doubts, and need to ask a question like this.... no doubts. been married 23yrs :lmao: just asking Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
XYZ Posted March 17, 2011 Share Posted March 17, 2011 no doubts. been married 23yrs :lmao: just asking :lmao: :lmao: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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